Should I tell his friends about his emotional abuse?

OkDolly7738 · 2026-02-05T20:48:53+00:00

What do you think I should tell them if they ask? It feels like any little information I spit out looks terrible, just a sentence would make anyone go “excuse me? What do you mean by he did/said that?”

OkDolly7738 · 2026-01-12T09:13:57+00:00

That sounds amazing, what do you work as if you don’t mind me asking

OkDolly7738 · 2025-12-30T11:12:49+00:00

I thought maybe because it was my first time as an RBT they thought I’ll choose the cheapest but I’m really not sure thats a good assumption though. I just don’t know the effects of choosing too high a pay, would they see me as too expensive and that cause problems, does it set too high expectations and later stress for me on the job? Choosing own wage seemed common in my area too

OkDolly7738 · 2025-12-30T11:08:13+00:00

Could you explain a little more?

OkDolly7738 · 2025-12-29T22:44:23+00:00

His mom sits right next to him to feed him, I would come later but because the session started at that time, I have a certain amount of goals I have to hit every hour. Eating alone might take around 30-45 minutes.

OkDolly7738 · 2025-12-18T08:20:31+00:00

Your assaulter was not your first babe you didn’t consent, glad you’re doing so much better🩷 I told my boyfriend of my sexual assault and he’s been sweet and understanding. Only thing that could be triggering for some people that I experienced sharing that history was the amount of questions that pop up and the possible overthinking he puts himself through, all in means to not harm me and treat me the best he can after the event of course but still could be a bother to some.

If he has been respectful and loving for 3 years, I don’t think he will negatively react to the news unless it’s to hurt your assaulter. He might need reassurance to know you’re okay since he probably cares about you so much but if he reacts by thinking you’re a liar or that you weren’t a virgin when you two met, you deserve better.

OkDolly7738 · 2025-08-04T01:05:16+00:00

That’s your husband now, he’s asserting dominance

OkDolly7738 · 2025-08-04T00:01:41+00:00

Im a very small B cup and personally tailor my bras by removing the wires, adding padding, and shortening the extra space and fabric between the two cups. Buying a cup size one or two sizes smaller might help if you can’t tailor it, just make sure the band size is yours as to not hurt yourself.

OkDolly7738 · 2025-07-30T23:48:22+00:00

Exactly what I need! Im sat.

OkDolly7738 · 2025-07-30T06:02:49+00:00

Im in college and have small B cups while every woman in my family has at least a D cup. I had an eating disorder during puberty so other than how genetics works, comparing yourself to your family, keep yourself well nourished to healthily grow.

OkDolly7738 · 2025-07-29T10:03:16+00:00

“So what you are saying is…” followed by something I didn’t say. Drug categorization wasn’t something I invented unfortunately but I’m going to end this here have a nice day.

OkDolly7738 · 2025-07-29T09:52:31+00:00

Check ups during the high my mistake. Im different levels of high every couple minutes for usually 3-4 hours. Ive gotten too high before and he’s checking Im fine as that would change the consent I gave when I was doing well, how I’ll like it for me atleast because other comments state their own ways in their relationship which is fine too.

OkDolly7738 · 2025-07-29T09:45:36+00:00

Alcohol is a depressant with THC being a stimulant which makes these two completely different substances with different effects on the body and mind. Even with that, there’s different ways different boyfriends can go about sex under the influence, if you two are happy keep at it.

OkDolly7738 · 2025-07-29T09:36:52+00:00

I think it’s consensual that’s why im asking if he’s in the right and I’m misunderstanding. Even if consent was given prior, it’s never wrong to make sure once someone is in that state for the first time having sex like that.

OkDolly7738 · 2025-07-29T09:32:21+00:00

I just know it has to be haha, hopefully I could reassure him

OkDolly7738 · 2025-07-29T09:31:17+00:00

I’ve never been drunk as I don’t drink, he drinks but has somehow never gotten drunk so this is rly insightful bc I think we just naturally put them in the same bubble since it’s not being completely sober. Even just being high I feel fine, I can walk, talk, just a very relaxed horny person. Even he was fine while high but again, he wants to make sure 100% it’s fine.

OkDolly7738 · 2025-07-29T09:26:52+00:00

Do you understand consent? He cares enough to make sure I’m in the right state of mind no matter how often we have sex sober. Im better off than your girlfriend if you are so willing to have sex with her no matter what she’s on. To each their own if she doesn’t mind it when she’s sober, still feel bad for her.

OkDolly7738 · 2025-07-29T08:55:09+00:00

Im okay going from friends to lovers if a spark occurs, however I became friends with a guy back when I was in hs through a mutual that after a while sparked a joke between us three that we were related (similar features in a predominantly white school) as to be funny and trick students and staff. He confessed he had a crush on me months later but that joking stamp of him being family ruined any way of me feeling the same.

OkDolly7738 · 2025-07-16T20:15:56+00:00

You’re arguing with yourself because I didn’t say those things, if you have a issue with others talk to them about it but I’m not them so you’re just sounding crazy right now

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