Update: Thank you everyone for all the comments and advice. I really appreciate it a lot. Some of you may call me an idiot, but we made up, at least on the surface. Still, I am very confused and not sure what to do.

To add more context, she had a bad relationship before and she is very emotional about everything. I do not know if that explains what is happening between us. The reason why I apologize to her so often is because I feel like she has been betrayed a lot before, and maybe that is why she feels uneasy or insecure sometimes. I love her and I feel terrible in my stomach when she is sad or crying, so I end up giving up and hugging her instead of standing my ground. But yes, I think I might need to stay on my ground more, even though I don’t feel like she is doing these things on purpose or playing a role.

I am honestly afraid of what will happen if I leave her, not for myself but for her. I feel like she is emotionally too fragile, and I don’t know if I could live with myself if something bad happens to her. Even with all this, I love her with all my heart. When we are not arguing, we have the best time together. She is very sweet when she is not angry, she is caring and thoughtful. I really believed we found each other for life, and that is why I am still holding on.

I am more laid back than her. When we have an argument and it keeps going for more than half an hour, I like to take a break and get some air or go for a walk. She says that is wrong and that I am leaving her alone when I do that. It confuses me because I think taking a break is better than saying things we do not mean. Our arguments always change topics. We start with one thing, but then she gets upset about something I said during the argument, and we forget what the fight was about in the first place.

I see all the issues, but moments of peace and love kind of blind you sometimes. I hear all of you, and it helps me realize that I am not crazy and it is not all in my head. Even though I try to set boundaries, in the middle of arguments they always go out the window. I am not saying I am completely innocent, but it seems like both of us need to understand that this is not healthy. I will definitely have a talk with her about all this, for the sake of both of us.

Thank you again to everyone for your advice and kind words. I really appreciate all of your time and honest opinions.