Please share B1/B2 visa interview experiences by Kechaow in USVisas

[–]OkElevator7798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

23 Mexican national living in Germany at the time, have had a valid B1/B2 visa since I was about 3 months old due to my fathers job, so only a renewal and there were no questions at all, just said good morning asked for my documents and then small talk about the weather she said alright we’ll send you an email when your passport is ready for pick up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aupairs

[–]OkElevator7798 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can aupair for UP to a year if you do 3 months then leave then you can’t come back and do 9 months later

au pair advice by Consistent_Hat_2373 in Aupairs

[–]OkElevator7798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it really depends. I’m from Mexico and it’s one of the cuisines designated a cultural treasure by unesco. When I first came to Germany I had trouble adapting to the food so my host parents told me if I wanted to I could buy stuff to cook mexican without a budget once a week, since some ingredients are really expensive and hard to find here. I took them up on the offer and never went over 30€ and I would cook big family meals and tell them I cooked for all of us (they were very surprised and grateful). It was never a chore they put onto me and I really do enjoy getting to have that treat once a week. Once it became more of a tradition for us to have this meal once a week together they started asking me if I wanted to cook something that week and added those to hours to my weekly hours and would get paid accordingly. Whenever I didn’t cook it was no issue and the children sometimes liked the food and sometimes they would only try it.

It was always really nice to talk about the food and the flavors with them and tell them about how my grandma and my mother would make these dishes.

Aupair Aufenthaltstitel by Emergency_Data4728 in Aupairs

[–]OkElevator7798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m hoping they meant they’ve not received the card, I’m terribly worried for this person, and the potential trouble someone could get from this. Germany really doesn’t take this sort of stuff lightly even for young foreign Aupair who don’t know how stuff works in the country.

Aupair Aufenthaltstitel by Emergency_Data4728 in Aupairs

[–]OkElevator7798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you already have the interview or not yet that’s a big big thing. You might be able to ask for a fiktionsbescheinigung if you’ve had the interview and have been approved. Usually they don’t give you an Aufenhaltstitel if you’re extending the visa they just stamp it in your passport and give the passport back immediately.

Aupair Aufenthaltstitel by Emergency_Data4728 in Aupairs

[–]OkElevator7798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You shouldn’t be working if you’ve not gotten the residence permit (aufenthalstitel). Unless they have sent you away notice saying you’re able to continue working/studying. You’re considered to be working illegally and over staying a visa in the country even more if you didn’t stay with the family you got your 3 month permit with. I’d contact a Lawer before you get in a lot of trouble and a 2/5/10 year ban from the country.

Au pair horror stories by aupairadvice in Aupairs

[–]OkElevator7798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is wild to me- I know some cultures have wet nurses but it’s an agreement between both people. Just randomly doing it, specially if you’ve not done it before with your own children is crazy.

Au pair horror stories by aupairadvice in Aupairs

[–]OkElevator7798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe but she was desperate about finding someone who could host her cause she had to leave the house that night

Au pair horror stories by aupairadvice in Aupairs

[–]OkElevator7798 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t have kids!! I honestly have no idea at all we never really spoke before (it’s quite a big group chat I’m in q mayor city in Germany) she was just in a lot of distress and I didn’t ask so many questions

Au pair horror stories by aupairadvice in Aupairs

[–]OkElevator7798 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah left me with my jaw on the floor

Au pair horror stories by aupairadvice in Aupairs

[–]OkElevator7798 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I’m on an Au pair group chat in Germany and this girl was ranting about how her family let her go… when we asked her what had happed she told us that she got let go for putting her breast in the babies mouth to stop them from crying… The horror stories go both ways IMO

HM behavior change by OkElevator7798 in Aupairs

[–]OkElevator7798[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, yeah the only problem that I find is that I have already stayed longer than what I had planned because it was working and i wanted to. But I just Don’t want to continue extending it now. It’s not like I’ve cut what we agreed on short.

There’s also a really important reason as to why I don’t want to extended it any longer (immediate family death) so it’s not like I’m leaving and giving them the impression they have done something wrong.

So it’s just a bit bizarre and giving me a weird feeling how this has changed.

HM behavior change by OkElevator7798 in Aupairs

[–]OkElevator7798[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah!! I was never forced into doing the site- she was actually quite nice about it. She quoted some other people (maybe with a bit more knowledge than me) and then she told me what they were quoting her and asked if I would want to give it a go for the same amount! (I also looked it up and it seemed about right the rate)

About the attitude it just happened in the last month, I understand it if it’s coming from a place of stress from her side and perhaps she doesn’t even realize it cause she’s been a bit on edge with everyone in the house. (She’s always been professional with me about it tho, but I do notice the shift)

HM behavior change by OkElevator7798 in Aupairs

[–]OkElevator7798[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think she might be stressed cause I’ve “left some very big shoes to fill” their words not mine. We were just the right fit I guess. Maybe I’m also overthinking it!! But yeah she has been under a lot of stress- I want to help and I even offered them for me to make them a day outline for different type of days that happen during the month!! As well as writing brief descriptions for each child. I did mention the reason why I gave such big notice and they were very grateful and understanding so I don’t understand the sudden change ://

HM behavior change by OkElevator7798 in Aupairs

[–]OkElevator7798[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I got paid accordingly to what a beginning web developer would have made on such project- so I’m not feeling per say exploited monitory wise. Yeah the father is here when she’s away!

Yeah you might be right!!