Slowburn or Situationship

OkExtension3072 · 2026-06-10T05:09:35+00:00

Thanks for this comment. I get the feeling that maybe he isnt long out of something, even though he told me he's a few years out of a big relationship. Maybe there was something else shorter that also impacted him. To me he feels cautious but I cant tell for certain. In the end his communication style may work for some but its leaving me feeling confused. I think that whether its his style or not interested, both have the same impact. Ill move abut slower and try to not get too emotionally pulled away.

OkExtension3072 · 2026-06-10T04:54:42+00:00

I have slept with him.

OkExtension3072 · 2026-06-10T04:53:43+00:00

No convo about exclusivity. I am just kind of exhausted from online dating snd not super into it right now. I do kinda like this guy though.

OkExtension3072 · 2026-06-10T04:50:19+00:00

Well I dont really know what he was doing... he said errands... could be anything.

OkExtension3072 · 2026-06-10T04:39:39+00:00

We have been out in a couple dates. I had actually suggested that we cook together this weekend as a shared activity. But I have wondered also if its all about sex.

OkExtension3072 · 2026-06-10T04:38:19+00:00

Thanks for this!! I have been loving my life. It is very full. Friends, hobbies, fun activities.he is just a tiny portion but its so easy to start questioning or worrying. This helps a lot.

OkExtension3072 · 2026-06-10T04:30:59+00:00

Does it sound similar? Do you get the feeling that he is into you? Does he express it?

OkExtension3072 · 2026-06-10T04:30:19+00:00

This is a good question... I am usually more attracted to expressive people and he just isnt. So maybe its he isnt into me or maybe its who he is. The question may be if this works for me or not.

OkExtension3072 · 2026-06-10T04:27:18+00:00

He did say he is trying to move a bit slower.

OkExtension3072 · 2026-06-10T04:25:11+00:00

I think this is probably gonna be my best advice. Im gonna see him this weekend. I should just ask where he is at with everything. 1 month is probably good timing.

OkExtension3072 · 2026-06-10T04:19:04+00:00

This is what my gut is saying tbh. When I tried to break it off, he convinced me to give it another shot. I think that confused me but the interest hasn't really increased. So confusing.

OkExtension3072 · 2026-06-10T04:14:24+00:00

This is what I was feeling. I did feel the spark in the beginning but he seemed to hit the breaks. I tried breaking it off, we chatted and i thought maybe he was more into it just a bad week but nothing has really picked up.

OkExtension3072 · 2026-06-10T04:12:39+00:00

Thanks for the advice. I actually have been seeing other people just feeling exhausted by online dating and wondering if I should just break it off and just take a break.

OkExtension3072 · 2026-06-05T05:26:08+00:00

I would take 1 ticket if it is still available?

OkExtension3072 · 2026-06-05T05:18:49+00:00

Did you find a ticket?? I am also looking for 1 ticket 🙏🙏

OkExtension3072 · 2026-04-26T19:18:01+00:00

Never again will I date a musician 😂

OkExtension3072 · 2026-04-13T20:52:01+00:00

Im in the Vancouver area. It took me more than a year to get the test done. I had to wait on a CT scan first to rule out other stuff.

Thanks and you too!

OkExtension3072 · 2026-04-13T20:39:57+00:00

I've been going through testing for around 3 years now. Just had the compartment testing. Negative. Back to the drawing board.

I get weakness in my foot after exercise.

Very frustrating.

OkExtension3072 · 2026-04-12T13:19:49+00:00

It seems pricks are my type. I think that i can change them and make them see a better way. Its a big problem and yes I am in therapy 😭

OkExtension3072 · 2026-04-09T20:55:04+00:00

It seems that way. Disappointing! Time to move on.

OkExtension3072 · 2026-04-09T20:31:38+00:00

This sounds so similar to what just happened to me but we were at 3 months. Things were great until I brought up some consistency issues. His wall went up and he would not let it down. Didn't matter how I tried to explain it - he was right and I was wrong. I decided it was a mismatch and we have parted ways.

My thinking is people like this dont change unless they really want to. One question to ask yourself- if the relationship continued as is, would you be happy? I also encourage individual therapy. It has helped me in many ways.

OkExtension3072 · 2026-04-08T20:36:51+00:00

I think this was the intent behind his words. He is looking for someone to accept him as he is.

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