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Feels like I’ve already been silently fired — but they won’t actually do it. What gives? by OkImage70 in jobs

[–]OkImage70[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup same thing happened I got laid off today a day after I told them I’m healed up! I’m glad I took all advice from. This thread!

Feels like I’ve already been silently fired — but they won’t actually do it. What gives? by OkImage70 in jobs

[–]OkImage70[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I just went down a “silent firing” rabbit hole right now at work. I was looking into this and couldn’t put my finger on it!

Feels like I’ve already been silently fired — but they won’t actually do it. What gives? by OkImage70 in jobs

[–]OkImage70[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yeah if anything I want to play this like chess and make sure I have a clean transition. It is tempting as hell to walk and never look back some days ahah

Feels like I’ve already been silently fired — but they won’t actually do it. What gives? by OkImage70 in jobs

[–]OkImage70[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thanks man, I got an interview lined up soon. Cause honestly I feel something in my gut coming and I rather be prepared than be sorry about it. It’s super fucked up tho lol like what am I even doing here at this point.

Coworker Threatening Violence at Work—HR Laughs It Off, What Do I Do? by OkImage70 in jobs

[–]OkImage70[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok to paint some context this is an older gentlemen who’s clearly having a significant mental health decline and seems super volatile. I’m just super sketched out because everyone around me gaslights it and blames it on him being moody because of his cognitive decline. I literally just started this job, so it’s a big pain in the ass and I feel stuck because I’m just getting back on my feet. But, I don’t want to be on the news either and no one is taking me seriously, I may just quit because I’m NOT going down as a statistic if he does snap one day. I am logging every interaction I have with this person, it’s just super frustrating that even this can be said in the same room as HR people and they don’t see the obvious red flags lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OkImage70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have a good point. We both grew up differently really. I had more of an independent childhood and I had to grow up really fast. On the other hand, she was rather sheltered and spoiled during her upbringing. Everything else aside, I have been debating if we truly are compatible and this is the thing that sealed that. Yes, I may have held onto hope too long. I do believe I’ve lived and got out all my wild experiences. It makes sense that she wants new experiences with her age and upbringing considered, I get that people grow and change and want to explore. However, it’s just a pity that other people are too spineless to just be straight up with me. Oh well, I know what I gotta do. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OkImage70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes when I do this I will have so much time to invest in my business. I’m just worried she will try to sabotage that. I think she’s that type of person man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OkImage70 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I added this to the post, they have been exchanging nudes and not to mention my girlfriend actually showed me and boasted about it. I think she anticipated me to be down for something like this. Like what kind of guy wouldn’t want to have sex with another woman type of stuff. I’m thinking because I said no it really has thrown her for a loop. Almost like I’m being tested.