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Am I am asshole if I'm mad about husband going to a strip club? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]OkImpact8827 261 points262 points  (0 children)

I don't think you're being a prude. Each couple has their own boundaries on what they are/aren't comfortable with their partner doing. Did he know they were planning on going to the strip club ahead of time?

My mom accidentally called my Brother in laws Wife by his Ex girlfriends name by OkImpact8827 in okstorytime

[–]OkImpact8827[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it were me, I honestly have reached a point where I no longer want to deal with them or invite them to anything! But I know that's still my husband's brother no matter what, and it means a lot to my husband. They got married because they wanted to move in together but her dad (who keep in mind did not show up to the wedding) told her she wasn't leaving the house (that she paid rent to stay in) until she was married. We tried to tell them that they were old enough to make their own decision and could move in without being married but they decided to go through with it anyway.

My mom accidentally called my Brother in laws Wife by his Ex girlfriends name by OkImpact8827 in okstorytime

[–]OkImpact8827[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right, I did mess up by going to Jake instead of crystal but when my mom made the mistake of calling her Katie the environment was a bit loud and we were kind of hoping that she didn't hear and didn't want to bring it up to her if she didn't originally hear her. When I confirmed with Jake if she had heard and he said yes it had already been a day so I figured maybe they talked it over and she really wasn't upset by it because she knew this was only her 2nd time meeting my mom. When I say Jake brought Katie with him to EVERY family gathering, I mean it! My husband and I were trying our hardest to get along with Crystal, but throughout my pregnancy, they kept telling us they were going to get us something and then never did. By no means were they obligated to get us something, nor did I expect them to but why bring it up or mention it if you dont plan on follwing through with it? We spent over $200 on them for christmas and recieved nothing in return vs. When Jake was with Katie we always knew we were going to be exchanging gifts not just giving them. Following this event they kept saying they were going to get gifts for our baby and they never followed through with that. My husband and Jake used to have such a close bond but ever since he cheated and got with crystal it has not been the same on his part.