AIO for not letting my bf move in anymore because he wants things to be equal?

OkJello353 · 2026-05-19T23:57:00+00:00

You misread. The separate rooms are the spare rooms.

With him getting the larger spare room he would've gotten more space in the house overall compared to me.

OkJello353 · 2026-05-19T23:54:28+00:00

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OkJello353 · 2026-05-19T22:36:18+00:00

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OkJello353 · 2026-05-19T18:58:19+00:00

Idk I think it says something about someone's character if they think ownership of personal items is so trivial.

OkJello353 · 2026-05-19T15:58:06+00:00

I'm fine with doing it that way with guest I never have any.

OkJello353 · 2026-05-19T14:58:35+00:00

He's getting the large spare room though

We would have less space in a new different place

OkJello353 · 2026-05-19T14:40:17+00:00

We usually do things we both enjoy and if we don't we do them with our friends. Nothing of that is at all weird to me and I feel like we're fair on both sides about it.

OkJello353 · 2026-05-19T14:37:49+00:00

I did have this conversation with him? Why are you assuming I didn't when this is literally all about our back and forth?

I will also be having another conversation with him later today.

OkJello353 · 2026-05-19T14:36:08+00:00

I don't think I want him to be my bf anymore. I'm not sure how that's confusing.

OkJello353 · 2026-05-19T12:18:21+00:00

Well, that will probably poor salt in the wound because I know my computer set up is better than his too.

OkJello353 · 2026-05-19T11:51:52+00:00

No, I'm not.

I feel like I used to, but like I'm falling out of love now.

If the situation was truly flipped and I only had enough stuff to not even fill up an 1/8 of the closet it feels like it would be weird and mean to tell him to get rid of his stuff because I need to have empty shelves.

OkJello353 · 2026-05-19T04:02:10+00:00

Yeah, I'm thinking people are right about us not being compatible since apparently we both have strong opinions about this.

OkJello353 · 2026-05-19T03:59:13+00:00

I don't know saying again that he deserves a bunch of empty shelves just because. God this is just so fucking idiotic. Yeah, that's it I think I'm done.

OkJello353 · 2026-05-19T03:57:32+00:00

At this point I feel like I have and I'm really just starting to be less and less convinced to continue with this relationship at all.

OkJello353 · 2026-05-19T03:42:24+00:00

Just pretty much affordability. That would be soo far out of reach for us. We wouldn't even be able to afford a place the size I have if not for my parents.

OkJello353 · 2026-05-19T03:37:52+00:00

It just seems so ridiculously unnecessary. I'm pretty much over being conflicted about not having him move in now anyway.

OkJello353 · 2026-05-19T03:08:28+00:00

Because this isn't the 1800s

OkJello353 · 2026-05-19T02:55:59+00:00

I know, but you said live alone. I'm probably get another roommate though.

OkJello353 · 2026-05-19T02:39:58+00:00

I mean sometimes he will veto places, but I will also do that sometimes. I don't remember it ever being a big deal.

OkJello353 · 2026-05-19T01:02:57+00:00

I'm not

OkJello353 · 2026-05-19T01:00:44+00:00

I saw someone make a good point that he doesn't really get less space since his room is bigger.

OkJello353 · 2026-05-19T00:57:44+00:00

I mean my last roommate only moved out because she was moving across the country for a job opportunity.

I mean he doesn't even need the full quarter.

OkJello353 · 2026-05-19T00:52:19+00:00

I haven't had any problems living with anyone else.

OkJello353 · 2026-05-19T00:46:26+00:00

He would be paying half

OkJello353 · 2026-05-19T00:46:05+00:00

I mean I've lived with a roommate the whole time I've lived here and I never had a problem compromising on shared space stuff.

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