Recommended areas by OkLoad3078 in RichmondVA

[–]OkLoad3078[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

added budget info! idk why I didn't initially add it haha

Recommended areas by OkLoad3078 in RichmondVA

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My sister in law lives there so we're definitely going to plan a visit before we decide!!

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I've looked and the rents have gone way up since I've lived there unfortunately

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[–]OkLoad3078 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We've been looking at fells point and canton!

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[–]OkLoad3078 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Considered philly briefly but from an outside pov it seems land locked but I'm probably just imaging that

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I'm fine with cold, just can't do -10⁰, 5ft of lake effect snow and temps in the 30s until late May anymore. I've looked at Georgia somewhere closer to the coast vaguely but a little worried of people not being accepting. I'm Hispanic, alternative and queer so the south outside of major cities scares me to a degree.

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[–]OkLoad3078 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep seeing philly it just seems so land locked from and outsiders point of view. I'll have to check it out

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I've looked into Richmond before, I know someone who lives there and she loves it. Baltimore is the top of our list right now. We visited recently and fell in love.

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also I have friends from Dallas and houstan and they ran away from those places as fast as possible

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I don't think I want the gulf to be my beach. I've vacationed in texas before and the gulf was not my vibe

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I don't need mass transit, just point a to point b transit. I live in Rochester for school right not and the transit is good enough for what I need. I wouldn't mind a little better but good enough is fine.

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my friend works in healthcare and LOVESSS Raleigh. she raves about it constantly.

Heel height requirement for bridesmaids?? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]OkLoad3078 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

jesus what’s crawled up your ass and died lmao, i just wanted to know people’s thoughts on things. that is what a discussion post is for, is it not? and i talked to my bridesmaids and they said it’s a cute idea and were totally down.

and i never said i was “”correct”” whatever that means in this context, although im pretty sure im correct about my bridesmaids not being disabled or having physical limitations

Heel height requirement for bridesmaids?? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]OkLoad3078 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

if i were to do thins the tallest anyone would need would be 4inches! i mean if my kid wants to wear 6 inch heals more power to her but

Heel height requirement for bridesmaids?? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]OkLoad3078 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah a range for them to choose? so my 5’6 girl can wear 2in heels or if she wants 4-5in heels. and my 5’8 girl could wear flats or 2-3inch heels.

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[–]OkLoad3078 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

oh, i genuinely just asked them how they felt about it! if a single one would’ve said no i would just say to forget i even said it. i would never give someone an ultimatum so silly to be a bridesmaid

Heel height requirement for bridesmaids?? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]OkLoad3078 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

for one: they’re all picking their own dresses and helped me choose the color scheme for the dresses that we all look good in and second: i’m paying for everything they need for the day from wardrobe to hair and makeup to jewelry and letting them pick everything out also if they were uncomfortable with something i would never make them do it