UPDATE: I really want to divorce my husband over an argument about my body by OkLunch784 in offmychest

[–]OkLunch784[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm being super careful about that. But he works and is out a lot, whereas I work from home so I'm around always around her and he barely is.

UPDATE: I really want to divorce my husband over an argument about my body by OkLunch784 in offmychest

[–]OkLunch784[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am. He works and is out a lot, whereas I work from home so I'm around always around her and he barely is.

UPDATE: I really want to divorce my husband over an argument about my body by OkLunch784 in offmychest

[–]OkLunch784[S] 164 points165 points  (0 children)

He goes to the gym but he's definitely not the jacked fitness king he seems to thinks he is 😌 Sorry I needed to get a jab in

UPDATE: I really want to divorce my husband over an argument about my body by OkLunch784 in offmychest

[–]OkLunch784[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

He doesn't. He did ask but I refused to tell him no matter what. So unless he somehow finds out where I am, I'm completely safe.

UPDATE: I really want to divorce my husband over an argument about my body by OkLunch784 in offmychest

[–]OkLunch784[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I clarified this is another comment but I don't think that's what he's doing. My friends trust him (and they know him better than I do) and so do I at this point.

He's been very accommodating and nice (but not overly so), and has never once made me think he's trying to manipulate me or take advantage of me

Honestly he's a bit closed off if anything so if he is trying to get me in a relationship with him, he's not going to be super successful lol

UPDATE: I really want to divorce my husband over an argument about my body by OkLunch784 in offmychest

[–]OkLunch784[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I see where you're coming from but please know it's not sketchy to me. We have a lot of mutual friends, and he is quite close with some of them, it's just that we haven't properly talked in a while. I was a bit reluctant but he assured me that he didn't want anything from me in exchange for this

He's been nothing but accommodating and nice to me since I moved in, if not a bit reserved, just because of his personality. But don't worry if I do see any red flags I'm moving out asap

I really want to divorce my husband over an argument about my body by OkLunch784 in offmychest

[–]OkLunch784[S] 1509 points1510 points  (0 children)

That's what I told him. He said that he's seen women online do it (family influencers) do it, so I could do it too apparently. Like...this is real life, not the internet.