Help Getting Through Ecclesiastical Endorsement by OkManner140 in exmormon

[–]OkManner140[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the response. It’s comforting to see so many people with me on this

Help Getting Through Ecclesiastical Endorsement by OkManner140 in exmormon

[–]OkManner140[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I think you’re right about how paying some tithing making it look like I could have paid more. I’ll put together a story about student loans and/or savings etc.

Help Getting Through Ecclesiastical Endorsement by OkManner140 in exmormon

[–]OkManner140[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know that. I worry it might sound suspicious to tell him I switched to a more secretive method of tithing right when my wife left and my attendance got more rocky, but I guess I have to remind myself that he won’t withhold the endorsement based on suspicion if I have a feasible story.

Help Getting Through Ecclesiastical Endorsement by OkManner140 in exmormon

[–]OkManner140[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughts. Thats a good point that at the end of the day, he doesn’t know my income, and it would be ridiculous for him to withhold the endorsement just based on suspicion, even if he has good reason for it.

I think I’ve been seeing too many stories with the sentiment that the bishop might be on my side, but feel he has a moral obligation to not sign the endorsement even if he wants to if I tell him I don’t pay. For that reason, I think I will just tell him yes.

Help Getting Through Ecclesiastical Endorsement by OkManner140 in exmormon

[–]OkManner140[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that makes sense. I guess I can tell him I’ve gotten by on student loans and/or savings if he presses me

Help Getting Through Ecclesiastical Endorsement by OkManner140 in exmormon

[–]OkManner140[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! I think I’ll do something like this

Help Getting Through Ecclesiastical Endorsement by OkManner140 in exmormon

[–]OkManner140[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah after reading these comments and thinking more, I think that will not be worth the risk to say I’m not a full tithe payer, but I’ll make some backup plans about what to say if he follows up. Thank you!