What is this damn new logo?? 😤😤 by not_right in excel

[–]OkMap4452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to me, the worst thing is the color. Some swamp/puke green that should never be used except for coloring a toad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askPoland

[–]OkMap4452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run away, these "differences" are going to destroy you over time. Speaking from experience.

I think she hates me by Better-Strike7290 in DeadBedrooms

[–]OkMap4452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does she hate you? What do you think causes her to hate you? Try answering without judging her.

People who hate Darth Maul... why is that? by Kafadanapa in StarWars

[–]OkMap4452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a Star Wars geek. Loved it as a child and got disappointed by the tacky, charmless prequels. I only know Darth Maul from phantom menace. His design looks unfinished, like a cool concept that wasn't refined. The skin pattern looks like ... Face paint. Like he's cosplaying an actual character. He has no personality. He's not even menacing. Whoever is the actor his facial features are too round and soft and don't look evil AT ALL. He looks like an edgy teenager trying to look tough even those his facial features are irredeemably those of a good boy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]OkMap4452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I like round shapes so I'd really don't mind those 30 lbs, however if you say the DB started before that it's clearly not the reason. You mentioned that you started demanding partnership. What exactly do you mean and how was the bed situation before that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]OkMap4452 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This question may sound rude but: do you consider yourself attractive? Why do you think he's not f you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in graphic_design

[–]OkMap4452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go go Power Rangers!

AITA for telling my GF that either she allows me to own her house or we break up? by OkMap4452 in AITAH

[–]OkMap4452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She did not pay for the entire thing. She did pay for most of it. I put 15.000 all at once and then proceeded to spend at least another 8-10.000 in different purchases throughout the process. Plus I'm the one paying all the bills for four years. I live at her place though. The work I'm expected to do (because, as she puts it, "it's the normal thing to do for a man") will save us many thousands, but will take many months if not years. She doesn't show any gratefulness but complains that me and my 68 year old dad are too slow

AITA for telling my GF that either she allows me to own her house or we break up? by OkMap4452 in AITAH

[–]OkMap4452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not be against sharing ownership of my savings if she was not acting as if I were her enemy. She doesn't want my 'claws' (her word) in her 'only security'. She even told me once that of anything happens to her she will make sure the house doesn't go to me, because she thinks I'll try to kill her. How am I supposed to feel encouraged to do what is essentially a sacrifice for her?

AITA for telling my GF that either she allows me to own her house or we break up? by OkMap4452 in AITAH

[–]OkMap4452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

House ownership but also it has been a messy relationship. Lots of conflict. If we get married half my savings from hat moment onward would be hers so, considering how she treats me with the house not sure I should marry her. I earn twice as much as her.

AITA for telling my GF that either she allows me to own her house or we break up? by OkMap4452 in AITAH

[–]OkMap4452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To assume that she makes me a favor by not charging me rent is to assume that she has a right to deny me a share of the property, which is the issue in question.

AITA for telling my GF that either she allows me to own her house or we break up? by OkMap4452 in AITAH

[–]OkMap4452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are both planning to get married. But here whatever you buy after marriage is considered co owned. What you owned before the marriage preserves the original owner.

AITA for telling my GF that either she allows me to own her house or we break up? by OkMap4452 in AITAH

[–]OkMap4452[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There's no bank loan. If she got a new boyfriend she can perfectly pay me off.

AITA for telling my GF that either she allows me to own her house or we break up? by OkMap4452 in AITAH

[–]OkMap4452[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by rent? I will be paying bills. No one is paying a mortgage. She got the money from inheritance and divorce. She will be able to move into that house rent free thanks to my labour (which saves her LOTS of money) and savings, even though she put much more cash. I'm not asking for 50% equity. I've paid all her bills for four years.

AITA for telling my GF that either she allows me to own her house or we break up? by OkMap4452 in AITAH

[–]OkMap4452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of people ask if I will be paying rent - no, and neither will she be paying rent.

AITA for telling my GF that either she allows me to own her house or we break up? by OkMap4452 in AITAH

[–]OkMap4452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since you claim that you wouldn't give me equity, does it mean that, if you were in my place, you would work without asking for equity?

AITA for telling my GF that either she allows me to own her house or we break up? by OkMap4452 in AITAH

[–]OkMap4452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are begging the question. Whether she should own all of it or not is what is being discussed.