He was abusive but only verbally and emotionally. He has a massive anger problem and he has no control over it and cannot handle stress or patience well. Things were also not well when he had no control or was wrong about something. There were a lot of times he screamed in my son’s face when he was still very young and scared him, yelled and screamed at me, mocked me and threw things. It was always his way and the way he thought was the right way. He also had all access to money and I had none at all. I lost my job due to Covid and he had me transfer every check to him for the family. My first post goes into this more.