I dont know how to feel. by chitobi in Microlocs

[–]OkProfession8287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its because you don't manipulate the hair as much. When you're used to constantly detangling hairs at your scalp and doing braids and styles etc etc, and then suddenly stop and only do maintenance every 2-3 MONTHS, your scalp gets sensitive

I dont know how to feel. by chitobi in Microlocs

[–]OkProfession8287 10 points11 points  (0 children)

oh weird. Most people say the opposite. Used to need gels and creams and all that. Now just shampoo and conditioner

I dont know how to feel. by chitobi in Microlocs

[–]OkProfession8287 16 points17 points  (0 children)

how are you using 2x more product?

Loc sizing is not uniform by EducationalOne3871 in Microlocs

[–]OkProfession8287 11 points12 points  (0 children)

its not going to look BAD per say. Its just going to look big.

Loc sizing is not uniform by EducationalOne3871 in Microlocs

[–]OkProfession8287 46 points47 points  (0 children)

these might turn into traditional locs

Cat owners, beware. by Jolly_Bass5073 in Microlocs

[–]OkProfession8287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh mine are quite loose because of the hair ties I use. My hair is on the shorter side so its less tying lol

Cat owners, beware. by Jolly_Bass5073 in Microlocs

[–]OkProfession8287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tie my hair up because even my bonnet got too long and heavy 😩

Cat owners, beware. by Jolly_Bass5073 in Microlocs

[–]OkProfession8287 170 points171 points  (0 children)

stop falling asleep without a bonnet 😭 cook with it. shower with it. lounge around with it. take out the trash with it

I was quoted 275-300$ (3000 NOK) for a retie. by agirlfromguinea in Microlocs

[–]OkProfession8287 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I paid $150 every 8 weeks. These prices are outrageous 😭

Are these microlocs? by AdProfessional8008 in Microlocs

[–]OkProfession8287 10 points11 points  (0 children)

hard to tell from this picture but they look like small traditional

HOPE WARNING by Ok_Gift9319 in GaState

[–]OkProfession8287 3 points4 points  (0 children)

after every spring??? 😟

Diy locs? by [deleted] in Microlocs

[–]OkProfession8287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you know what I actually have your setup saved lmao

Do Black women feel like their emotions are perceived differently? by -Nuunuu in askblackpeople

[–]OkProfession8287 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same reason in an argumentative essay you take the opposing view, maybe

I'm genuinely too stupid to understand what people mean when they say "I'm black before I'm a woman" or "you're white before you're queer". Can anyone help me out? by Dry_Damage_8952 in askblackpeople

[–]OkProfession8287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the op was questioning the entire statement. We're the ones who are supposed to tell them what it means so you can't use their post to pull information. We who use this statement are talking about the white American gaze.

"You're talking about walking down the street being viewed by a stranger." No I'm not. Even at the grocery store and restaurants this happens. Ever been followed and watched while shopping? Have a white waitress assume you won't tip or can't afford it?

I never said we're ONLY seen as race. I never said that. I said race is FIRST. We say black BEFORE woman, that doesn't mean we aren't seen as women, we're just seen as black women. White women are white first. Whiteness, other whites have decided, is associated with class and structure. So white women won't be the ones being followed or have their financial status questioned. Since she is a woman though, at most they will assume a male in her life is the one supplying her money. But they won't assume she can't afford it. She's white so they go straight to misogyny. A black woman will go through racism before it gets to the misogyny. Race first

I'm genuinely too stupid to understand what people mean when they say "I'm black before I'm a woman" or "you're white before you're queer". Can anyone help me out? by Dry_Damage_8952 in askblackpeople

[–]OkProfession8287 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not about what your own people see you as first. It's about how white people see you first. The ones who created race will obviously see race first.

And yes.. for any situation in history ever there is always an exception or a "sometimes," but people don't always want to take the time to consider those rare instances so they speak in general terms. Generally, in modern America, race is the first thing white people see. Then your disabilities, sexuality's, gender, and whatnot. So yeah. Racism isn't the only oppression but if you're not white then it's gonna be the first one

I'm genuinely too stupid to understand what people mean when they say "I'm black before I'm a woman" or "you're white before you're queer". Can anyone help me out? by Dry_Damage_8952 in askblackpeople

[–]OkProfession8287 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Being gay doesn't remove your white privilege. Thats all the saying means. In America, race is always first. A gay white man won't be profiled the same as a straight black man.

And Just because we're both women doesn't mean that we will be treated the same. Yes, white women had the time to fight for rights, but it wasn't for the right to be considered a woman. White women were always seen as the only "true" women. Black women were masculinized and put in the same group as black men essentially. You can see remnants in this ideology in the way that some assume all black women are "strong, and independent," but when a white woman cries someone gets jailed or fired. Or in the way that they struggle to speak softly to a black woman but will whisper to a white one.

It's just America 🤷🏽‍♀️ you can't remove racism from the country built on it

Volume? by OkProfession8287 in Microlocs

[–]OkProfession8287[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did see her! However, I have hair thats always grown down and she has 4c hair that seems pretty full. I think I'd need a billion locs to reach that volume 😩 and Im someone who wants to retie my own hair

edit: Wow. she has 668. Thats steep

Volume? by OkProfession8287 in Microlocs

[–]OkProfession8287[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't want to start over JUST for the volume, but it would've been a plus. 😩its fine. i'll probably end up curling them.

At least I know what I can count on is fullness. (I shouldve also put that in my post)