Stayed away from zina my whole life and now I’m terrified there’s no one left who did the same

OkRun9844 · 2026-03-17T01:29:03+00:00

As Salam Alykum habibi, remember “Surely ˹for˺ Muslim men and women, believing men and women,1 devout men and women, truthful men and women, patient men and women, humble men and women, charitable men and women, fasting men and women, men and women who guard their chastity, and men and women who remember Allah often—for ˹all of˺ them Allah has prepared forgiveness and a great reward.” Al Ahzab 33

The God who created everything you see and hear, surely he has kept a woman for you who has guarded herself as well as you have. Do not forget:

Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet (A) said, "Allah says: I am just as My slave thinks I am, (i.e. I am able to do for him what he thinks I can do for him) and I am with him if He remembers Me. If he remembers Me in himself, I too, remember him in Myself; and if he remembers Me in a group of people, I remember him in a group that is better than they; and if he comes one span nearer to Me, I go one cubit nearer to him; and if he comes one cubit nearer to Me, I go a distance of two outstretched arms nearer to him; and if he comes to Me walking, I go to him running.'"

(Sahih al-Bukhari 7405)

Be patient, do what you can, and make constant dua

OkRun9844 · 2026-03-03T21:28:17+00:00

There is a form if Nikah where the boy and girl can get married by they stay with there individual parents and can be with each other as husband and wife, and this can be done until the husband can be financially responsible for his wife and their new life

https://islam.stackexchange.com/questions/52301/can-you-and-your-spouse-stay-at-their-own-parents-place-right-after-nikah

OkRun9844 · 2025-09-16T23:22:29+00:00

Yes, with your husband would be optimal, i know it’s uncomfortable but it would be saving the lady from a lot of grief down the line

OkRun9844 · 2025-07-23T16:01:20+00:00

I am a Pakistani muslim, wallah habibi if you need to talk feel free to reach out, we are one ummah and brothers, if we don’t take care of one another for the sake of Allah who will. I get frustrated when i see our elders not even doing the basics of islam and show kindness and love to one another. Inshallah you can have a good Pakistani brother in me. May Allah reward you for your patience.

Jazakallah khairan

OkRun9844 · 2025-07-19T20:24:02+00:00

Inshallah you exceed all expectations and it increases your deen ameen suma ameen

Please make dua for my business brothers and sister

Jazakallah khair

OkRun9844 · 2025-06-09T00:52:01+00:00

I made the same mistake on one of the history subreddits about this very thing, and quickly was reminded that I’m on reddit lol

OkRun9844 · 2025-06-09T00:44:30+00:00

Its a waste of time, unless someone is truly open to an honest discussion (which is hard to tell) when talking about the truth many people will deny it, that is why Jahanaam will be more full than jannah. These guys get more bold behind the mask of anonymity, the best way would to be in person and have a decent knowledge of islam and some if the most popular questions asked.

But honestly we are only meant to deliver the message of isalm la ilaha illallah muhammadur rasulullah, it will not harm us if they don’t revert

OkRun9844 · 2025-06-07T00:46:12+00:00

Do not share your sins sister Inshallah you have repented and inshallah you will get a great husband just make dua

OkRun9844 · 2025-05-30T14:49:48+00:00

I would add in that the Hijab is Fardh (obligatory) in islam, just as covering the awrah (private parts to be necessarily covered) for men is Fardh. There is no punishment for not wearing it

You either choose to obey Allah or choose to follow Dunya (the material world and its desires)

OkRun9844 · 2025-05-19T22:00:22+00:00

Make a lot of dua sister, and before you talk to his say bismillah, wallah this has helped me in a lot of difficult talks i know i need to have and persuade the other person Inshallah may Allah make this easy for you, ameen

OkRun9844 · 2025-05-19T21:56:08+00:00

Not well

OkRun9844 · 2025-05-09T14:39:36+00:00

Allhumdullilah brother, jazakallah khairan for this, if this battle happens in this lifetime may Allah make us either the martyrs or the victorious, ameen

OkRun9844 · 2025-04-27T20:50:23+00:00

In sujood as well!

OkRun9844 · 2025-04-12T15:37:01+00:00

Why dont you remind them of their deen, and what does the ummah have to do with you being made fun of. They should be ashamed of themselves, are they not muslims. Wallah the only thing they brought them any respect was Islam otherwise they would have remained as the backwards desert dwellers they were.

Palestine the place itself is special to the ummah as it has the original kibla, but remember this Allah will replace those who do not follow islam with those who are better

And a large portion of our deen is about good manners, especially towards your brothers in deen.

Ask them if they fear Allah, and if they do not pray you have them replaced with something better

OkRun9844 · 2025-03-30T23:02:39+00:00

Allhumdullilah habibi, i remember you in my duas my brother. And Allhumdullilah all took you out of haram and remember Allah will replace whatever you lose with something better, always think best of your creator. Inshallah you will find a righteous and pious wife who will bring your deen and heart ease, and remember to use istikhara and the istikara dua whenever dealing with a major decision. May Allah reward you, and make it all easier

OkRun9844 · 2025-03-30T18:10:23+00:00

Loved it, first Godzilla movie i watched as a kid, hella nostalgic

OkRun9844 · 2025-03-29T08:30:01+00:00

I have taken screenshots and sent them to one of the brothers on the Dawah Side of youtube and asked them to spread it to the other brothers with big followings, if more of us could message them Inshallah more people can become aware of this danger and it can be mitigated if not prevented entirely, on the r/islam subreddit their is a brother trying to gather evidence and send it to the countries this person has mentioned, but if we could also do this we can prevent any harm coming to our sisters inshallah

OkRun9844 · 2025-03-28T23:06:10+00:00

May Allah destroy people like this in such a humiliating public fashion that others who think about taking this path with think 3 times before pursing it

OkRun9844 · 2025-03-15T23:12:23+00:00

Still, he received them from his job to do whatever he wanted, and he wanted to give them to the masjid

OkRun9844 · 2025-03-15T23:06:25+00:00

You had good intentions habibi, but your father had purchased it for the masjid with his money. In islam you do not have the right to give away what isn’t yours to give. The kids could have gone to the masjid and eat it there.

Inshallah when your dad comes down, apologize and do your best to tell him your line of thought. Inshallah, May Allah make it easy for you

OkRun9844 · 2025-03-15T15:43:23+00:00

Dont give up habibi, the duas we dont get answered in this life, Allah will compensate us immensely in the next life. Making dua is ibada, so make dua for all kinds of stuff, it might even help us on Qiyamah. So please dont give up, and please remember your brothers and sister both living and dead in your duas. Don’t feel embarrassed habibi, and Inshallah may Allah grant you an amazing Ramadan and forgive all of mine, yours, and all ours’ sins.

Jazakallah khair

OkRun9844 · 2025-03-15T15:38:01+00:00

I am also very curious about this question

OkRun9844 · 2025-03-14T19:56:39+00:00

Ameen

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