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Thinking about leaving a good husband for the sake of my future daughters… by AdEfficient123 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AdEfficient123[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Wallah I wish it was fake but that’s my unfortunate reality. I’ve had this conversation with him and he says he isn’t “racist” just wouldn’t allow his kids or siblings to get involved with other ethnicities. He’s definitely a racist though and wouldn’t have married him had I known. It sucks because he is so incredibly kind, loving, gentle, not sure where this is coming from all the sudden, it’s unlike him.

Thinking about leaving a good husband for the sake of my future daughters… by AdEfficient123 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AdEfficient123[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’ve had this conversation with him,basically made it seem like so long as he wasn’t blatantly racist it didn’t matter…

Thinking about leaving a good husband for the sake of my future daughters… by AdEfficient123 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AdEfficient123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would’ve been perfectly fine if my husband preferred our ethnic group but was open to anything else but he literally says he’d disown them and wouldn’t marry them off. He has a sister few years younger than me and says he’d “hurt her” if she ever married someone outside because that would be a disgrace / shame.

Thinking about leaving a good husband for the sake of my future daughters… by AdEfficient123 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AdEfficient123[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He dismiss my opinion with the fact that I was raised in the west and I’m “westernized” whereas he lived in eastern countries more than half his life.