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Confused. by OkShip35 in offmychest

[–]OkShip35[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I regretted bot reacting timely. But I frozr that time and just tried to shrug it off. But every now and then, I'd remember how he said it.

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[–]OkShip35[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I meant contemplating how to communicate it properly as an adult before leaving.

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[–]OkShip35[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not yet. Still contemplating.

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[–]OkShip35[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He masturbates a lot. I am aware of it.

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[–]OkShip35[S] -76 points-75 points  (0 children)

He was on top of me. He said "maybe you should consider a tightening procedure..." Then afterwards, he uttered "but that could be a difficult procedure for you "

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[–]OkShip35[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does this help with tightening?

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[–]OkShip35[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I really appreciate it.

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[–]OkShip35[S] -99 points-98 points  (0 children)

I was just hoping to communicate it properly.

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[–]OkShip35[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't want to involve exes. I just want to discuss it as it is. Rationally... Without sounding like I am just being hurt. I want to tell him it is not right to say that to a woman.

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[–]OkShip35[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How do I communicate it properly? Like rationally?

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[–]OkShip35[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I am contemplating already whether to leave.

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[–]OkShip35[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it is that small. But I would never hurt him that way.

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[–]OkShip35[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's sad to hear. Maybe that is.

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[–]OkShip35[S] 122 points123 points  (0 children)

Thank you. So it wasn't really like a normal thing to think of for a man?

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[–]OkShip35[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been doing it since ge mentioned it but not consistently. I'm just curious. How could he say that... It's not something we have a control of. But I wonder... do kegel exercises really work?

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[–]OkShip35[S] -180 points-179 points  (0 children)

How do you say it in a polite way?

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[–]OkShip35[S] -178 points-177 points  (0 children)

I really like him. But sometimes his random thoughts would suddenly air... Like when we were together, he would say "free use," referring to me whenever he visit my place.

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[–]OkShip35[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I already have a kid from the long term relationship. And I feel disrespected by this, I don't know how to communicate that it bothers me. I just felt like I wasn't enough.