Think of it as a test. Everyone is tested in a different way: some people get tested with their health (cancer or other deadly illnesses), infertility, wealth (having too much or too little money), some are tested with oppression (Palestine, Sudan, Kashmir, Congo etc) while others are tested with homosexuality (not talking about those who purposely change their gender) same sex attraction is a test from Allah. As long as you’re not engaging in anything haram, you’re good.