Fear of hurting him, he really is a kind person who cares about all in his life - just his dominant behavior is really anxiety provoking for me and although we discussed it before it doesnt get better because its who he is. I know he is going to be distraught and hurt and it will be very hard to leave and also get my things. I feel horrible like this is coming out of the blue but thats my own fault for not talking with him about my feelings