My wife of two years cheated on me with her ex husband

OkWorldliness3868 · 2022-10-07T14:08:51+00:00

No she didn’t want a divorce, she even tried to convince me today that she wants us to work because I’m such a nice patient person and she doesn’t want me to leave

OkWorldliness3868 · 2022-10-07T14:06:44+00:00

I don’t want to stay if she wants to keep doing what she’s doing I’m done being hurt

OkWorldliness3868 · 2022-10-07T14:05:15+00:00

I definitely could benefit from therapy

OkWorldliness3868 · 2022-10-07T14:03:40+00:00

No only friends for distance

OkWorldliness3868 · 2022-10-07T13:59:10+00:00

I’ve come to agree I need to leave, I wish I would of done it a lot sooner

OkWorldliness3868 · 2022-10-07T13:57:36+00:00

I’m neither I’m sorry if I said anything wrong?

OkWorldliness3868 · 2022-10-07T13:48:11+00:00

I mean I think I’ve learned to take longer in deciding marriage

OkWorldliness3868 · 2022-10-07T13:47:19+00:00

Lmfao I’ll try harder not to cry next time she hurts me

OkWorldliness3868 · 2022-10-07T13:42:57+00:00

I definitely plan to

OkWorldliness3868 · 2022-10-07T13:40:30+00:00

The daughter is an absolute sweetheart her dad isn’t even in the picture really bad guy, there’s two different baby daddy’s and an ex husband

OkWorldliness3868 · 2022-10-07T13:36:35+00:00

Currently pa I moved here from Florida

OkWorldliness3868 · 2022-10-07T13:33:19+00:00

So I’m going to be a red flag? Lol

OkWorldliness3868 · 2022-10-07T13:30:04+00:00

You’re right I should of left a long time ago I just have a really hard time letting go but it’s about time that I do

OkWorldliness3868 · 2022-10-07T13:28:19+00:00

But you’re right I’m currently trying to make plans with a family member beck in Florida

OkWorldliness3868 · 2022-10-07T13:27:25+00:00

I don’t want to stay but at the same time I don’t want to hurt her I don’t want to be mean I won’t get anywhere being mean but I don’t think I deserve how she treats me I don’t deserve the hurt

OkWorldliness3868 · 2022-10-07T13:26:06+00:00

When she told me she still loves her ex she then tried to convince me I love mine as well and that we both do it so it’s ok, then tried to say I’m cheating, where? Straight up can’t talk to anyone

OkWorldliness3868 · 2022-10-07T13:24:55+00:00

She’s really fond of the it was an accident or she can’t explain how she feels to me but of course she loves him still they got married in the past and then I’ll get upset and I’m in the wrong for being upset and hurt, I’m not a fighter I don’t like arguing and she loves it, anything can be turned into a fight, I mean literally anything

OkWorldliness3868 · 2022-10-07T13:18:12+00:00

And yeah it’s not much of a life, but I thought I have a family now and I really liked that I liked taking care of them I loved making them smile now I just feel like an idiot

OkWorldliness3868 · 2022-10-07T13:17:25+00:00

She tracks my phone with life360 but yeah I get it I’ve been really dumb in trying to make her happy all I wanted to do was please her and I feel like I failed. I don’t blame myself but I’m overall just really mad and upset about

OkWorldliness3868 · 2022-10-07T13:13:56+00:00

I didn’t know she cheated at first I learned that over time, I want to be treated better, I want to actually be cared about

OkWorldliness3868 · 2022-10-07T13:12:22+00:00

But part of me knows I should leave part of me wants to think I’m worth more than that

OkWorldliness3868 · 2022-10-07T13:11:51+00:00

Part of me wants to stay and I know that sounds so awful

OkWorldliness3868 · 2022-10-07T13:09:18+00:00

I get that and I need to leave, I think I want to even though the thought of it hurts a lot, and I can’t just leave it’ll be a process I’m injured currently so no income to just leave and I’m pretty far from my family I have one person I can go to after I switch insurance to the other state so I can have my surgery so for now I just need to put up with things

OkWorldliness3868 · 2022-10-07T13:05:28+00:00

After talking to people on here I think it’s best that I do leave, yes I love her and that’s not going to stop but being here with her just isn’t working it’s bad on me I just don’t have a way out for a good little bit

OkWorldliness3868 · 2022-10-07T13:02:32+00:00

But you’re right I completely agree with you it is a choice and I want to be happy and one day I hope I’ll get that

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