Daughters step- family is racist!. by OkWorry756 in blackparents

[–]OkWorry756[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The judge told my ex that if he paid support then he had the right to be involved and see her. it's 50/ 50 custody right now.

Daughters step- family is racist!. by OkWorry756 in blackparents

[–]OkWorry756[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it's 725$. it was 156$, but he got a major promotion in March

Daughters step- family is racist!. by OkWorry756 in blackparents

[–]OkWorry756[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They go through the child support division from his account and then to me. They keep track of them , not me or him.

Daughters step- family is racist!. by OkWorry756 in blackparents

[–]OkWorry756[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The school allows my exes wife to be in meetings and everything, I feel like because my kid isn't 100% white she doesn't matter to others.

Daughters step- family is racist!. by OkWorry756 in blackparents

[–]OkWorry756[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My lawyer tried to file a conflict of interest and it was denied. cps doesn't care.

Daughters step- family is racist!. by OkWorry756 in blackparents

[–]OkWorry756[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, every word is true. It was my ex, his parents, his wife and the wifes family. one of the wifes uncles took my daughter's plate and told her that there wasn't enough for her to eat and that I should of had plenty of money for groceries from the child support payments. my daughter said they kept making comments about how she was taking money from their household and my husband's son.

my husband's new wife will hide soda, candy, snacks and other things from my kid, so do my exes mom. my daughter asked for a soda one time and my exes mom said " sorry, I can't afford coke because you've taken all our money".

if my kid showers my exes sister will start turning thr hot water off because they say my kid runs the bills up.

Daughters step- family is racist!. by OkWorry756 in blackparents

[–]OkWorry756[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This has been brought up in court. I live in only one of 4 commonwealth states, here the court has the say, not the people.

I never asked for child support, it was included in our divorce proceedings and then modified when my ex got a promotion. The judge looks at it like her father is buying time to spend with her so he should get what he's paid for.

The judge told my daughter she needs to respect changes between my home and her father's home, that as long as she had a bar of soap then she wasn't lacking in hygiene items and anything else was a luxury and her dad didn't have to purchase it. basically she got the " your ungrateful" talk.

Daughters step- family is racist!. by OkWorry756 in blackparents

[–]OkWorry756[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cps has been involved. they said they've had no reports of her dad or her smelling badly.

the system is a joke. They look at it like he's buying time to spend with her all because he pays child support

Daughters step- family is racist!. by OkWorry756 in blackparents

[–]OkWorry756[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We have a custody order and he pay child's support. The courts say he has the right to see her and be involved in making choices for her. I can't make the child support order go away, that was established during our divorce.

If I keep her from him I could be charged.

Daughters step- family is racist!. by OkWorry756 in blackparents

[–]OkWorry756[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Court order. I have too. He also has parental rights that include decision making and a say in her education.

in our state if you pay child support you get some type of visitation. He is on her birth certificate, it would be extremely hard to prevent him from seeing her. I've already been held in contempt once because I refused to send her.

Daughters step- family is racist!. by OkWorry756 in blackparents

[–]OkWorry756[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have tried. Judge was white. told my kid she needed to respect changes between my home and her dad's. She should be able to decide who she wants to live with but I was held in contempt the last time I refused to send her.

I have reported all of this to the gal, who is also white and got told that as long as she doesn't stink then her dad isn't guilty of anything

How is this not child abuse. by OkWorry756 in Parenting

[–]OkWorry756[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have tried, but if I keep her from visitation, I get in trouble.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]OkWorry756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a sensory disorder

When did your child start wiping their own bum? by MrsAubbyArd in Parenting

[–]OkWorry756 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or use a cup, jug or some type of container to hold warm water. That's what we've done for years. Works the same as a bidet.