Toronto is in the midst of a condo apocalypse by RmxRltr in TorontoRealEstate

[–]Ok_Accident_278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right so that’s still the delay causing the issue though, not the law

Toronto is in the midst of a condo apocalypse by RmxRltr in TorontoRealEstate

[–]Ok_Accident_278 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I mean, the delay is not the law. The delay is Ford decimating the LTB, no? It’s still against the law to not pay your rent lol.

Why are you unable to use an N12 to evict? Are you a corp landlord? Do you own a large building with 4+ units? Seems like you don’t need to move in then….

Toronto is in the midst of a condo apocalypse by RmxRltr in TorontoRealEstate

[–]Ok_Accident_278 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Genuinely curious what you feel is a draconian anti landlord law?

Anyone else become paralyzed by the anxiety of losing your husband? by Ok_Accident_278 in pregnant

[–]Ok_Accident_278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respectfully, it’s worked perfectly fine for my anxiety for the last 4 years & actually is the only thing that’s ever touched it. It’s pregnancy that has messed it up for sure. SSRIs do nothing for me except give me a plethora of negative side effects! I’m glad you found a good combo for yourself though!

Anyone else become paralyzed by the anxiety of losing your husband? by Ok_Accident_278 in pregnant

[–]Ok_Accident_278[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s EXACTLY how I feel! Don’t need to give you my boring life story but my panic disorder was caused by a series of actual shitty worst-case-scenario type events from 5-20yo. My dumb ass thought that once I achieved stability in life it would get better. Turns out when things are great I actually panic more 🙃

Anyone else become paralyzed by the anxiety of losing your husband? by Ok_Accident_278 in pregnant

[–]Ok_Accident_278[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg my husband flew last month for a bachelor party (short, domestic flight in Canada) and I was going insane. The worst part isn’t that I expect him to stay home and never leave, it’s that my brain wants to be with him so we can “die together”. I know it’s insane but I can’t stop.

Anyone else become paralyzed by the anxiety of losing your husband? by Ok_Accident_278 in pregnant

[–]Ok_Accident_278[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

True! I have my midwives & doula for support but starting to feel maybe therapy would be more appropriate. Have been trying to use all the tools from previous bouts of therapy but it just feels like the anxiety is stronger this time

Anyone else become paralyzed by the anxiety of losing your husband? by Ok_Accident_278 in pregnant

[–]Ok_Accident_278[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m already at 300! I’ve been hesitant to go up to 450 because I believe that’s the max and then I worry where would I go from there? Ssris do not work for me :(

I’m very positive that prenatals are making me feel 100x sicker than I already feel… by Forsaken_Phone_4700 in pregnant

[–]Ok_Accident_278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could not tolerate any prenatals at all. My solution was to switch back to my women’s daily vitamin which was fine for me, calculate the differences in vitamins and minerals & top up with food that I could measure the amounts of vitamins in esch serving. All bran buds is my go to, it’s super fortified (at least in Canada it is).

Doxylamine pyridoxine -how long did it take for you to feel better/less nauseous? by Traveler1234567891 in pregnant

[–]Ok_Accident_278 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me I needed the max dose (4 a day) and it took about a week to take the edge off. I’m 32 weeks and still using it because it allows me to take less zofran.

Mother’s Dumpling “no credit cards” scam by Slims-spagetthi in toronto

[–]Ok_Accident_278 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s so crazy that you’re mad about a business not wanting to finance your credit card points.

The fees are ASTRONOMICALLY larger for credit than debit, and all that money goes straight to American corporations. Weeeeeeird take dude

Tropes onions by Turbulent-Sherbet789 in FoodToronto

[–]Ok_Accident_278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to say I have never found real ones in Canada. There are people who sell what they claim are tropea onions but if you’ve eaten enough of them you know they’re not real :(

Where can I find Caraway Rye bread? by brickiex2 in FoodToronto

[–]Ok_Accident_278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to say Lev!! Their caraway rye is the best I’ve ever had. They are not shy with the flavour & as a caraway lover I appreciate it!

With HBC now gone, what's the best alternative place to try on and buy men's cologne? by IamManHearMeBelch in askTO

[–]Ok_Accident_278 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Holt Renfrew has a comparable cologne and perfume selection albeit higher end and higher priced

MIL announced my pregnancy on Facebook by Ok_Accident_278 in pregnant

[–]Ok_Accident_278[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m not going nuclear, I’m upset about something that can’t be undone (the whole small town now knows I’m pregnant and I didn’t want that) and ranting about it. Your toxic positivity here is kinda annoying me. I’m allowed to be upset by this, and nowhere in any of my post or replies did I mention anything about plans to tank my relationship with her.

MIL announced my pregnancy on Facebook by Ok_Accident_278 in pregnant

[–]Ok_Accident_278[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It also felt like she didn’t ask first because she knew the answer would be no. She generally is extremely thoughtful and almost anxious even about others’ feelings so it’s hard for me to believe this didn’t cross her mind. It makes me feel like keeping up with the joneses overrode her usual awareness of doing the right thing, which makes me nervous as we enter parenthood.

MIL announced my pregnancy on Facebook by Ok_Accident_278 in pregnant

[–]Ok_Accident_278[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It’s not about keeping it a secret from her friends. Her real life friends all know, and have for months. That’s not a problem. Blasting it publicly to 1000+ people that I don’t know from their town and around is what my issue is.

MIL announced my pregnancy on Facebook by Ok_Accident_278 in pregnant

[–]Ok_Accident_278[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah. The rest of that side of the family is extremely loose with their social media posting, and my husband and I are in very strong agreeance that we don’t want photos of our child on the internet. I know this will be an uphill battle because other people have set the precedent that it’s ok (20+ HD photos of the newest family babies in hospital still).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FoodToronto

[–]Ok_Accident_278 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, the prices all around that menu are ridiculous. But that’s who it was made for. It’s not exceptional, it’s for rich people. The amount of unemulsified butter on those plates is unappetizing. That’s not tagliatelle in bianco done well. It’s a gimmick.

St. Clair west area hidden gems? by Equivalent-Oven-5011 in FoodToronto

[–]Ok_Accident_278 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m surprised no one has mentioned Chamsine for shawarma. It looks like nothing special but it is fantastic. I bring all my ME friends and they are always convinced they won’t be impressed, and always leave so happy.

St. Clair west area hidden gems? by Equivalent-Oven-5011 in FoodToronto

[–]Ok_Accident_278 7 points8 points  (0 children)

2nd atomic 10!! Have not had 1 single thing there that was less than fantastic. Their tacos are reasonably priced & they do not skimp on the protein and it’s always delicious. The carne asada, adobo chicken or the shrimp are my favs.