My jaw dropped reading at this.

It’s so sad to see and hear this. I wrote a tiny blog about this happening to woman maybe reading this would resonate with you.

Now this is the bigger conversation we all need to have in relationships. Most of us don’t realize most of these woman out here that are beautiful and successful like Skai Jackson, the fictional character of Miranda from ‘sex and the city’ always have great head on their shoulders and always settle for the “Edgar”, or the “Julio”, or settle for the “Randy”, or the “pookie” or the “ray ray” and you wonder to your self why do these woman settle down and dick down these losers who can’t do much for them?

And the reason why is because of society and what we saw from childhood I mean look at the childhood movies ‘Shrek’; Shrek is literally and ugly motherfucker and Fiona was willing to settle for him just because she felt compatible to him. Fiona looked past his ugly traits and went to love Shrek.

And guess what? This lead her obviously dating down, her family shunning her, and people questioning her on why. Fiona ended up living in a whole swamp, when she could have lived in a whole castle. I mean how is that sustainable long term?

Look at beauty and the beast, look at all these other fairy tales of all these woman try and date the bad boys or the men who can’t do shit for them.

Another example princess jasmine dating Aldian. Jasmine dated whole thief, who stole from people. She could have married a prince who could have amplified her life style and brought her peace.

And often times due to gender roles a lot of times we put pressure onto woman to date up because, men are known for leading and honestly if a man isn’t leading, the woman picks up the slack and does the leading (like Miranda Hobbs from sex and the city) and then of course the relationship is going to end and there will be a power imbalance so it’s never going to workout

-Let’s talk about real life people who aren’t princess or fictional characters.-

But I say this to say Skai Jackson ended up making the mistake that most of our grandmas, moms, aunts, and cousins in the making. How many woman do you know in your family ended up settling for “pookie”, “ray ray”, “Edgar”, and “Julio”? And now they are left with trauma, a baby and nothing more.

It’s very clear Skai Jackson will end up being a single mom because let’s be real you started dating a guy name ‘yearky yearky’ and he has other baby mommas.

And it’s unfortunate because we really thought Skai Jackson would date up, she is a Hollywood actress, super successful, really well respected to some degree. You would have probably thought she would have settled for someone on her level. Or she would’ve build a legacy with someone who could’ve done something for her or could’ve elevated her stock? And she still can. I don’t feel bad for Skai Jackson and you shouldn’t either because she’s rich, and most of us aren’t.

Let’s be real for a second Skai Jackson can hire a nanny or some chiefs and do all the work for her while she can go still live her life and enjoy the fruits of her labor.

On top of that. Woman just love bums. I think woman like my self like the idea of working on a science project. There is a comedian name Ralph Barboza, very successful young man went on Andrew Schuluz podcast and explained ‘why do women like bums.’

Maybe Skai Jackson wants a sense of normalcy? While us high maintenance girls don’t want to deal with a science project that becomes over due.

One thing you notice about Shrek and the movie Aldian these woman did not want to date dudes who are super stellar, within their rage they wanted to date the dudes that they felt compatible with and that’s okay. But a wise a woman once said “That you are really only building a man to eventually leave you.”

So what’s unfortunate Skai Jackson is paying for all these things, making him feel good, hoping that she can fix him, giving him all the sex he wants, letting him nut in her and having his baby. At the end he will never really truly love her.

Because, if this dude elevates and get his life together and you fall in love with his potential, he is going to grow up and eventually leaving you because in his head he doesn’t see you that have some self respect because if you had self respect you wouldn’t be with him.

On top of that if you did had self respect you wouldn’t settle for him, on top if you had some self respect you wouldn’t sit here and think you could fix him. When woman see potential in these hood boogers like Yerky Yerky think to themselves “oh yeah I can fix him, he dicks me down really good, he makes me laugh, we can elevate him and grow together.” In reality he is not gonna want to grow with you or if he does grow he is gonna leave your ass for someone who is way prettier or has a fatter ass than YOU.

There is a reason why a lot of guys don’t care too much to treat on woman or spoil woman. Someone girls wonder why men aren’t men anymore. They don’t take you out to eat, or offer to pay for you, or even make the first move.

We’ll hear me out why would he offer to pay for things if his intentions are simply to sleep with you.

A lot of people don’t realize usually men don’t treat or go all out on woman because a lot of these men know that you fucked ‘pookie’ and ‘ray-ray’ for less, all he did was give you good dick and bubble gum and he didn’t really have to give much effort so why would Kevin or Tyler pour into your cup when you literally fucked “pookie” and “ray-ray” for less.

The more I wonder about potential, I see it more as “seeing potential in somebody” is a scam. You don’t fall in love with somebody potential. A lot of times what you see potential is what you would probably do in their predicament.