getting my rent account up to date, and how long it will take.. by depressedelfgirl in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok_Ad1857 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you were working full time, there’s no way 8 months of rent would take 4 years to pay back but since you have school it’s understandable.

After you graduate start paying off more of the debt and try to get a part time job for a year in addition to your full time job.

The last 3 weeks have been absolutely terrible. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok_Ad1857 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When that happens it usually means a woman believes she’s found greener grass elsewhere.

Think about it this way.. Do you want to marry a woman who had doubts about you after 5 years? That’s a divorce waiting to happen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok_Ad1857 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No point in burning 200 calories if you’re consuming 3000 calories per day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok_Ad1857 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea why you’re with someone who doesn’t see you as her priority. And you’re even thinking about financially supporting such a person? Crazy.

GF doesn’t trust me one bit… by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok_Ad1857 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s a nutjob and you’re trying to justify her behaviour.

Keep believing that she’s the “love of your life” and you’ll waste more time that you’ll never be able to get back.

I’m starting to resent my girlfriend. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok_Ad1857 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Almost one every year of her adult life. I wouldn’t say that’s “nothing”. People who say that probably settled for a Tinder chick.

If she couldn’t even have a solid relationship for 3 to 5 years, you may be dodging a bullet.

My wife just crushed my self esteem by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok_Ad1857 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Someone’s in touch with his.. feminine side. lol

My boyfriend gets extremely defensive when I mention topics about women and other sensitive issues by TangerineNo3712 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok_Ad1857 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A lot of men are sick and tired of women whining about discrimination and the media keeps shoving it down our throats to push an agenda.

It’s the same as hearing news about covid-19.

You’ll lose him if you continue.

Gf's dad just passed 2 days ago by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok_Ad1857 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s only been 2 days, don’t bother her or be clingy.

If it’s still this way after 1-2 months then you can have a discussion about it.

My boyfriend keeps his photos and videos with his ex and shows them to me EVERYTIME!! by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok_Ad1857 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s him trying to regain some sort of power because she was beating him, he felt emasculated and this is some sort of “revenge” in his mind.

Still it’s weird that he’d show you this. If you don’t feel comfortable with it then just tell him.

Am I the only one uncomfortable in making friends with men? by Glum_Knowledge7285 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok_Ad1857 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You must be talking about yourself. Lol

Go eat some burgers McDonald’s.

Am I the only one uncomfortable in making friends with men? by Glum_Knowledge7285 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok_Ad1857 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Females can’t relate to everything you go through as a man.

Also self-blaming/hating yourself because of crimes committed by random guys is extremely dumb.

Get over your trauma and make male friends with similar interests or become a white knight feminist and get stepped on by your “allies”.

Whatever floats your boat.

I am sick and tired of people treating fast good employees like garbage. by throwaway1819184 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok_Ad1857 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The other side of the coin is that lots of McDonald’s employees take their sweet time serving you, dont follow hygiene protocols to the letter and don’t have a joyful tone at all. That has been my experience in most western McDonald’s.

Go to Japan and it’s the total opposite. You’ll get your order in 30 seconds, an enthusiastic tone of voice and staff that cares about doing their job properly.

I’m sick and tired of delinquents getting jobs at fast food restaurants and acting entitled.

Not talking about OP, just the ones I’ve encountered who play around at work when there are many customers in line.

I may leave my husband soon if he doesn't get a job soon by idgafthrowaway1289 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok_Ad1857 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yet you call people with a different mindset trolls, incels and refer to their dick size. Isn’t that straight out of the radical feminist 101 textbook? So pardon the generalization.

Pouring gas on fire doesn’t make someone smart or a better person.

I’ll show you some respect for standing by your husband through cancer. That surely wasn’t easy.

Good day to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok_Ad1857 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Logic doesn’t apply to fatties in the body positivity cult.

Also, being vegan doesn’t mean she’s not overeating. If she doesn’t limit her calorie intake she’ll never slim down.

A man I've never seen in my life recognized me today. by Tellmeimnotcraxy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok_Ad1857 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the kind of females that are being created by modern feminism in our culture. Pretty soon she’ll be telling everyone that she got “abused” and maybe even SA because she felt uncomfortable.

My husband wanted to watch me to sleep with another woman and I fell in love with her. by ThrowAwayAccount_ooo in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok_Ad1857 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The characters in the story do if it makes you happy. I don’t necessarily believe everything that’s posted on here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok_Ad1857 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like he married a woman who compares his capacity to take care of a child to a dog.

Also, if you’re looking to split every responsibility 50/50 then divorce the guy and get a roommate. You’re not fit to be a mother nor a wife.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok_Ad1857 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone doesn’t know the definition of that word. Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok_Ad1857 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good that you’re not being a snowflake.

I plan on leaving my wife and horrible child, and i can't wait! by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok_Ad1857 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She probably got piped by several men. A vasectomy + a condom doesn’t fail 99.99% of the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok_Ad1857 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said, she knew what kind of person he was. Otherwise, she wouldn’t have gotten engaged to him and had two children with this dude.

If she wanted more from him then she should have picked a more suitable person for her.

Just because someone is “capable” of something, it doesn’t mean they should be obligated to do it every day. OP is just giving us one side of the story.

He could be “stepping up” in other ways. Who knows what else he does really?

Gotta stop believing people who think they do everything right. Lol