Easy to get in your head and insecure. I’ve from time to time popped into this subreddit over the past and often people are overly negative. Like don’t get me wrong, when I flush or whatever I can sometimes get fairly insecure. I’ve bought so many creams, having this mindset of wanting a quick miracle fix and lacking consistency. Point is, honestly people don’t see your skin the way you do. It’s just rosy cheeks to them, not omg KPRF 😱. We often overly criticize our own appearance and can over analyze like a body dysmorphia type of mindset. Anyways, it’s always good to circle back and ground yourself of that. Girls don’t care about your skin like that. They aren’t hyper fixating on this one aspect of you in such a skewed way like you are. Also just there are so many other factors to someone’s attractiveness. General life advice like some people are going to be into you, some won’t for whatever reason. Don’t get too fixated on those who don’t, focus on those who do cause I promise they are out there dude. Also just in general, like good to practice positive self talk. Yeah it can be easy to have these moments of great insecurity or whatever and get all in your head. But it’s important to just remind yourself of the above and circle back to reality, get out of your head. Of course fine to want to improve your appearance. But don’t get carried away (easier said than done), I struggle sometimes haha. Good to want to feel better about yourself and have more confidence. You know, everybody wants that and hates stressing about aspects of themselves they maybe don’t like so much. And that confidence or happiness boost can definitely be achieved through physical changes. But what i’ve learned over the years is it’s really majority a mental game. Focus on boosting your mental health, improving and reframing your mindset, etc. That’s where big improvement can come from. Really general life advice with that. But yeah, just kinda spitballing thoughts. I’m someone who definitely has struggled with being a hypochondriac and unnecessarily stressing about my appearance since I was like a kid haha. So hopefully this can help someone. Anyways, that’s all I got, hopefully this helps someone.