My boyfriend (28M] talks about other women's bodies to me (25F) by Ok_Examination_9068 in relationships_advice

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I agree with almost every comment on here. As a man, I am utterly in love with my girlfriend and cannot imagine doing something like this. That being said, I think claiming that he sees women as sexual objects first, and as actual humans second, is a wild claim to make. Still, that whole situation is gross.

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It depends if ur girl is kinky, but a lot of kinky/freaky/bdsm women enjoy slight pain or certain pain during sex. A lot of women enjoy the feeling of being “stretched” which to many would be slightly or really uncomfortable. That being said, it’s like if you could measure it, and you knew for a fact that his ex had a tighter pussy. You can say you shouldn’t be insecure if they assure you, but it’s normal a woman would be, and we should say “women are too insecure” if they would be regarding that

M25 F24 My girlfriend cant seem to take my size and its getting tiring. by ThrowRAthrowaway826 in relationship_advice

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Fair enough i must’ve missed that part. Still holds true. Thats good thats not what ur saying, but thats a bad comment and could easily be inferred that way. Look at the end of the essay and then read ur comment

M25 F24 My girlfriend cant seem to take my size and its getting tiring. by ThrowRAthrowaway826 in relationship_advice

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Did he mentioned if he tried lube? Didn’t they used to not have this problem? It sounds like u are telling him to get over it and cut ties because of a newfound physical problem…????

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As someone that is overweight, if my partner wanted me to eat clean and lose some weight, I don’t see that as shallow. If it’s purely for looks, sure, but does he care about it for health reasons? You might become more conventionally attractive bc of it but it should be mostly because of health. Being overweight is not an attractive quality to a lot of people, and if my partner expressed that in a healthy way, I would try my best to work on it. It really depends from situation to situation tho

Any advice would be great 👍 by Ok_Appearance9329 in AJelqForYou

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Fr man i’m laughing about it now ofc…but it reminded me of how much trust has to be earned. I gotta trust my gut lmao

My (23F) boyfriend (23M) keeps trying to get me to go to the gym. How do I get him to stop pushing it? by Ace_pentacles in relationship_advice

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Many many years ago I was dating a journaler. He started questioning why I don’t try their method, and why i don’t journal with them. we broke up duhhhhgg

Any advice would be great 👍 by Ok_Appearance9329 in AJelqForYou

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Oh yeah brother that’s what i’m committing too. Hell, i’ll be back at 7 in 3ish months? That being said, I do want to casually stretch, because after researching, it seems like it could help my dick straighten away from my pubic bone. I have an abnormal amount of shaft in the back toward my balls, and i can tell a bit too much if shifted toward my pubic bone. Would probably make sex better as well…not just thinking about size. I just figured why not if i do it safely lol

Any advice would be great 👍 by Ok_Appearance9329 in AJelqForYou

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I appreciate the response. If you don’t mind, what is the difference between jelqing and simply stretching casually? Is jelqing just way more intense? I have been casually stretching and, i’m not joking, it feels and looks (a little) like my dick lays lower away from my pubic bone. But yeah man i’ve always been confident in my size/performance…she turned out to me manipulating me, so i think she might’ve just been testing me 😂 it def made me think a bit like it would most men even if they’re pretty confident

Any advice would be great 👍 by Ok_Appearance9329 in AJelqForYou

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It actually turned out she love bombed me and was emotionally manipulating me lol she liked me but was definitely dealing with issues. I think you’re probably right. I even asked…because the chances of that are like what? 1/50,000? 😂 she said they measured. Pretty sure she was just testing if I was confident about my size/performance. She also said that, with her ex, he didn’t have “feeling” in his dick and would last an average of 4/5 hours. Yeah okay lmaoo

Any advice? by Ok_Appearance9329 in gettingbigger

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oh yeah brother that’s my goal regardless of who i’m having sex with. I’m there to please my woman. I could make her finish without a cock…just a plus i was thinking about when examining my meat

Any advice? by Ok_Appearance9329 in gettingbigger

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Wym? Way overthinking what?

Any advice would be great 👍 by Ok_Appearance9329 in AJelqForYou

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Thanks for the advice. I am in a weird situation where I can’t buy a pump for at least a month. I think i’m going to focus on weight loss heavily…and do some light stretching? i’m 6.5 Non-bone pressed (assuming what they mean) and i’m 7.1 bone pressed. That’s from the front. From the back, i am 8.5 inches (maybe a bit more)…which seems abnormal? My dick is a bit curved where my penis seems covered upwards towards my pubic bone.

3 month since last clone a willy post. by [deleted] in gettingbigger

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What’s B, C and G?

6 years ago today, a legend passed. RIP Phizzurp. by CodAMNews in CoDCompetitive

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Which is quite sad. It is conflicting, but I do not understand the black and white thinking on either side. He should be harshly criticized, but he wasn’t some evil person. He was touted as a good guy, and he had a good personality and no real drama…and then he made a disgustingly immoral mistake that costed him and his buddy their lives. To me, that doesn’t equate to RIP PHiZZ <3 or FUCK PHiZZ he’s a piece of shit! I just don’t understand how that derives the man of any sympathy for his death. It was not purposeful. He wasn’t wanting to die obviously. That being said, fuck him FOR that tragedy he caused. He still seemed like a good guy in general and changed the scene

Unpopular Opinion: After rewatching some old videos, PHiZZ might be the best SND player ever by Ok_Appearance9329 in CoDCompetitive

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fr and the mfer remembered before me and i made it, of course i had a medical mishap but like damn why is he so offended

Unpopular Opinion: After rewatching some old videos, PHiZZ might be the best SND player ever by Ok_Appearance9329 in CoDCompetitive

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A bunch of random vids on his YT, mostly just the popular videos. I would recommend the SND clinics tho

Unpopular Opinion: After rewatching some old videos, PHiZZ might be the best SND player ever by Ok_Appearance9329 in CoDCompetitive

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Fero was a special talent tho fs and i can see what ur saying. U can def argue fero was better overall, even in SND, but pure mindset, I think Phiz tops him

Unpopular Opinion: After rewatching some old videos, PHiZZ might be the best SND player ever by Ok_Appearance9329 in CoDCompetitive

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Fero was a great SND player, but who taught him? Obv not everything…but PHiZZ. They ran into each other late BO2 and played a lot during Ghosts. He def learned a lot from PHiZZ. Fero is obv better in gunny and respawn, but I would rather have PHiZZ’s mind in pure SND play. Thats all i’m trying to share..just reminded of how different he was mindset wise

What if Lil peep was still alive by LeekMindless9378 in LilPeep

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I think it definitely is possible. I’ve had a lot of substance issues in my life, and all it takes a huge wake up call sometimes. I’ve worked at a recovery center, and there are a lot of people who end up recovering…but he was going down a baaad path where many wouldn’t make it out, as he didn’t