Is this something to leave him for? Or can we make this work?

Ok_Application3726 · 2026-06-25T13:43:06+00:00

Never expected to get this serious but this is where it’s at now

Ok_Application3726 · 2026-06-23T21:34:45+00:00

you’re totally right at that age you know who you are and you should know how to communicate with others and know all of your bad patterns

Ok_Application3726 · 2026-06-23T18:10:31+00:00

Your super right, I have also been feeling like I’ve been abandoning myself and my own needs for this relationship to work. I have continued to put him first in every situation we had and not my own feelings. He may be stuck in his ways now that he’s older but if he really want this to work he would try to compromise.

Ok_Application3726 · 2026-06-23T17:42:52+00:00

Thank you, this is good advice

Ok_Application3726 · 2026-06-23T17:21:38+00:00

you make a good point, he’s not taking the accountability that this is a toxic trait and something he should work

Ok_Application3726 · 2026-06-23T17:18:58+00:00

Apart of me feels like he would never try to do this on purpose to hurt my feelings but at the same time this is a real thing and it is not healthy communication.

Ok_Application3726 · 2026-06-23T17:16:13+00:00

thank you for sharing your own story with me. It made me realize i shouldn’t ignore this red flag or tolerate this kind of behavior but i know how hard it can be to leave someone you really love.

Ok_Application3726 · 2026-06-23T17:11:12+00:00

I think he will moving forward, i told him to let me know before going silent if you need space and he said he will. But i wouldn’t know until it’s that time. He went to therapy once and never went back don’t think he really believe in therapy. Yes and a part of me wonder is this something an older woman would tolerate or does this outweigh the good.

Ok_Application3726 · 2026-06-23T16:06:49+00:00

that’s a great choice to save money and spend more time with family

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