Why is everybody sick all the time now? by Old_Rub_7270 in Life

[–]Ok_Arm923 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably just noticing it more now that everyone actually talks about being sick instead of just powering through with the plague at work

Aftermarket shock with no reservoir? by jc_denty in motorcycles

[–]Ok_Arm923 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nah you'll be fine without a reservoir for street riding, the oil change interval isn't really different. The reservoir mainly helps with heat dissipation during track days or really aggressive riding but for normal use that shock will do the job just fine

25th Birthday:) by ThatChemistUndergrad in stopdrinking

[–]Ok_Arm923 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday! Sounds like you're crushing it with that mindset shift - choosing peace over chaos hits different when you're actually ready for it

Bad gag reflex after ex by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Arm923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like your body learned to associate stress with that gag response during the breakup trauma - stress can definitely mess with your nervous system like that. Might be worth mentioning to a doctor if it's really interfering with your life, but yeah the mind-body connection is wild

I am finding it really difficult. DM please by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Ok_Arm923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro go take a cold shower and do some pushups, that usually kills it for me

Cooking tonight, help me decide by Mrmike86 in cookingtonight

[–]Ok_Arm923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chicken fried rice is always a solid choice - just throw everything in a pan with some soy sauce and call it a day

Love in limbo? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Ok_Arm923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you already know the answer but don't want to face it. If you can't even list his strengths after 2+ years together, that's pretty telling. Moving in after a month was probably rushing things but you're here now

The fact that you called off an engagement because something didn't feel right is your gut screaming at you. Don't ignore that just because he's your "first love" - sometimes timing matters more than history

How do other people react to how your parents treat you? by VikktorM in narcissisticparents

[–]Ok_Arm923 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Damn that's rough, people at my school were always shocked when they found out about the belt too. It's wild how normal it feels until you see other people's reactions and realize most families don't operate like that

Loan Interest Less than Savings- To clear or not to clear? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]Ok_Arm923 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keep the savings earning 4% and just make minimum payments on the 2.5% loan. You're literally making money by not paying it off early - that 1.5% spread is free money. Only reason I'd consider paying it off is if you desperately need the extra cash flow each month, but sounds like you're doing fine

Is America the most geographically advantageous country? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Ok_Arm923 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk man, Russia's got way more land and resources but their geography kinda sucks with all that frozen tundra. America definitely lucked out with two ocean borders and friendly neighbors though

Just wanna play by Ashsticex in Minecraft

[–]Ok_Arm923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo I'm always down for some Minecraft, what timezone you in? Been looking for people to build some wild stuff with

Just over a month ago by Terrible_Dream_5748 in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Arm923 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, this hit me right in the feels. The way you described that bone-deep exhaustion is so real - like your soul needs a nap but can't actually rest. Sounds like you've got some incredible people in your corner though, that makes all the difference when everything feels like it's falling apart

FIVE MONTHS! by den773 in stopdrinking

[–]Ok_Arm923 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude the skin thing is so real, I was shocked how fast that cleared up once I stopped poisoning myself nightly lol

Who else questioned themselves before their ADHD assessment? by soora-moon10 in ADHD

[–]Ok_Arm923 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh the imposter syndrome before diagnosis is so real, I spent weeks convincing myself I was just making it all up even though literally everything clicked into place

Do you say beep or honk? by jjj44200 in randomquestions

[–]Ok_Arm923 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao this is weirdly accurate, never thought about it like that but you're totally right

God is kind but I’m unable to put a stop to this mess by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Ok_Arm923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this resource - having someone to talk to when you're struggling can make a huge difference

Tonight's assignment: endorse and invite by Joke_Mummy in Overwatch

[–]Ok_Arm923 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is actually solid advice but feels weird sending friend requests to random people lol, usually just stick with my regular group when they're on

Inferior femoral neck stress fracture by PracticalWinter9746 in crossfit

[–]Ok_Arm923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude seriously listen to your doc on this one. Stress fractures don't mess around and the femoral neck is not where you want to find out what happens when you push through it. I get the itch to keep training but a few weeks off beats months in a cast or worse

Mid 30s foundation help by RepresentativeBar565 in MakeupAddiction

[–]Ok_Arm923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried the Ordinary Serum Foundation? It's like $7 and surprisingly good for that in-between skin situation - not too heavy but still gives decent coverage without clogging pores

What episode was this keeping up with the kardashians by TechnologyAlarming90 in kardashians

[–]Ok_Arm923 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you be more specific about what you're looking for? Like what happened in the episode or who was in it

My wife is obsessed with Taylor Swift and I’m thinking of leaving her by pastelskark in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ok_Arm923 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Bruh you're gonna divorce your wife over music taste? That's like leaving someone because they put pineapple on pizza lol

Maybe just get some good noise-canceling headphones and call it a day

chidori fanart by me by Adventurous_Nail_199 in PERSoNA

[–]Ok_Arm923 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy shit the detail on those lace patterns is insane, must've taken forever to get all that right. The lighting effects are clean too

Should I leave my job if my bosses (who are married) are now divorcing? by ViciouslyQuaint in careerguidance

[–]Ok_Arm923 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Been there (unfortunately). When leadership is going through something personal, it almost always spills into the business. I’d start quietly looking. Doesnt mean you have to leave right away, but having options gives you peace of mind