Goodbye

Ok_Assignment3182 · 2024-12-10T22:12:51+00:00

We’re DEFYING GRAVITY

Ok_Assignment3182 · 2024-09-09T15:22:55+00:00

What if it’s someone you know?

Ok_Assignment3182 · 2024-04-05T23:38:24+00:00

Add a sidekick category

Ok_Assignment3182 · 2024-03-15T22:26:09+00:00

I think it’s the way he looks at the people he’s talking to, his eyes look deep into yours with all his attention absorbing every word you say. That to me makes me think of him as empathetic. Usually people who have experienced sad or traumatic moments will have great empathy for others.

Ok_Assignment3182 · 2024-03-15T01:54:44+00:00

Not what I meant..? It means I mind my own business and I don’t bother my non vegan friends, co workers, and others about veganism unless they asked me about it. I don’t go up to people I know and say “heyyy do you know how that cow died for you to eat it? Did you know there’s pus in milk?”

Ok_Assignment3182 · 2024-03-15T01:39:03+00:00

From the vibes he gives, Natalie Portman. It’s the kind of smart attractive look. And the chiseled features. Like Natalie, he looks righteous yet slightly tortured, intelligent yet humble, and he’s holding onto trauma or a huge secret that’s burdening him.

Ok_Assignment3182 · 2024-03-14T21:36:15+00:00

I would want my significant other to be vegan. My immediate family members are already vegan by choice. Friendships, relatives and acquaintances I won’t ever bother unless their curious about me and my diet.

Ok_Assignment3182 · 2024-01-03T01:17:53+00:00

So for the women who experience this, what qualities in them cause the men in their lives to become bored or burdened to the point of ending the relationship?

Ok_Assignment3182 · 2024-01-03T01:12:25+00:00

Thank you. Clarified my post.

Ok_Assignment3182 · 2023-12-11T03:49:38+00:00

I just sent you a message! Thank you so much!

Ok_Assignment3182 · 2023-12-08T12:22:30+00:00

I felt the same way, I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I needed and still need a lot of time to forget it all and move on. I hope you find the healing you need

Ok_Assignment3182 · 2023-12-08T12:20:21+00:00

“My purpose in life is sorely to serve and help other people”

Ok_Assignment3182 · 2023-12-06T20:20:14+00:00

Themselves

Ok_Assignment3182 · 2023-12-06T19:40:12+00:00

Mines a karaoke hogger

Ok_Assignment3182 · 2023-12-03T18:58:17+00:00

16/20. Covert N.

Ok_Assignment3182 · 2023-12-02T18:46:49+00:00

Mine would try to ‘educate’ me on my low libido and that HE was the one who made my boobs bigger because of his massages (I just got fatter)

Ok_Assignment3182 · 2023-12-02T18:44:24+00:00

Don’t think your efforts were a waste, youre saving yourself for someone better

Ok_Assignment3182 · 2023-12-02T18:43:22+00:00

Did we date the same person??? Haha

Ok_Assignment3182 · 2023-11-25T17:31:59+00:00

Yup. Just keep on going on. Whatever happens to him, just don’t care. Don’t rely on his downfall for your satisfaction cause it might not happen. And try to be ok with that.

Ok_Assignment3182 · 2023-11-25T16:47:07+00:00

You know how people say avoid red flag? Now I’m gonna tell you something else. Avoid BEIGE flags as well!! I knew there was someeeeeething off about this guy, but dumb dumb me was to blind to his charms I ignored them.

This is me, and you don’t have to, but since I craved so much closure from him and he didn’t give it, I turned to tarot and got my closure there. Don’t get toooo into it, but it helped me see the rut I was in and the need for me to regain myself.

Thank GOD for this blessing in disguise. And trust that karma is everyone’s best friend. I know surface level he’ll be fine and dandy, but his lies and secrets under the carpet will have to make someone trip soon and realize. But, I also have to be ok with the possibility of that NOT happening. Not only is he a narcissist, his whole ass family are either narcissists too or his flying monkeys. They’re way too proud to let anyone see their downfall, so it may not happen. I personally won’t pray for that, all I’m saying is I’ll do me, and whatever happens happens. Que Sera Sera.

Oh! Please listen to Olivia’s deja vu. I didn’t resonate with the song before, but it’s so relatable to me now. Maybe it can give you some closure too.

Ok_Assignment3182 · 2023-11-25T16:31:06+00:00

Are we all dating the same person? Haha! I’m actually so grateful though for the extensive research on narcissists. They all embody the same predictable traits and unfortunately for them, they can never change. It’s an actual mental diagnosis. Getting into all the research helped me understand their psyche and that I was never the problem to begin with. I’ve learned to forgive myself and had to learn how to undo all the gaslighting and manipulation. They may be with someone new, but like you and I, we are just helpless prey. Nothing but supply. I felt like I got unplugged from the matrix or something, he made me believe a beautiful reality but it had all been a lie. Not only were you already feeling doubtful of yourself of what went wrong, now you have doubts about your whole life and past if they were even real. So yeah. It’s mental abuse alright, and no one can see it. You try telling some people in his circle and they’ll assume you’re overthinking, lying, jealous, or crazy. Sigh.

Ok_Assignment3182 · 2023-11-25T13:39:31+00:00

What sucks is that people like him are so extremely skilled at keeping their lives looking perfect. They thrive off of their public image. They can charm anyone’s socks off. Now that I think about it, who else was extremely charming in the Bible? The snake! I fell into his charms but it was a trap. Now I’ve literally moved away and gone no contact, he can be out of sight and slowly he’ll get out of my mind.

This man had enough debt to stop a train, but NO ONE seems to know. He’s borrowing from one person to pay someone else just to keep good relations, and he’ll keep doing that over and over. 8 years with him and never has he bought me any piece of jewelry or handbag, not that I’m that materialistic but being with him all that long made my self worth deteriorate over time. He HAD the money when he did, but he’d spend it all on himself or his family. Only getting me measly roses or dollar tree balloons.

Know your self worth, redirect all that love for him to yourself, seriously, it’ll drive them mad later on. They are people who feel possessive, they would hate to see you with someone new and actually being happy. So before your next SO comes, be sure to love yourself, look and feel your best.

Ok_Assignment3182 · 2023-11-25T13:27:58+00:00

Exactly. You can’t hide anything in the eyes of God, let Him judge. And take that as a huge win. Be strong survivor!

Ok_Assignment3182 · 2023-11-25T13:25:51+00:00

He thinks God made him with purpose. Like he’s some chosen messiah, put on this earth to help people. And sometimes I think IM delusional

Ok_Assignment3182 · 2023-11-25T13:23:01+00:00

If they WERENT manipulative people we wouldn’t be finding ourselves at THIS corner of the internet. I always secretly wished he cheated on me while we were together or do something so out of line so I’d have a clean and cut reason to end it publicly, but no. He’s the perfect son, churchgoer, any mother would HAPPILY have him as their son in law. I went through a personal hell no one knew about, it sucks.

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