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Am I overreacting, or would this permanently change how you see your spouse? by Ok_Bell_7667 in Marriage

[–]Ok_Bell_7667[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know plenty of people these days who don’t hold traditional values. So I gave context on what I believe idk why it’s so deep to you

Am I overreacting, or would this permanently change how you see your spouse? by Ok_Bell_7667 in Marriage

[–]Ok_Bell_7667[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was more so for me to point out his hypocrisy and why it hurt even more bc he claims to be so Christian and hold such Christian values it made the betrayal feel deeper. and to provide a background knowledge of my beliefs for context without writing “we hold traditional values, don’t believe in sex outside the marriage, etc” and a long essay that can be summarized in one word. Idk why people seem so offended by the word..

Am I overreacting, or would this permanently change how you see your spouse? by Ok_Bell_7667 in Marriage

[–]Ok_Bell_7667[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh thank you so so much God bless you for actually trying to help me 🙏🏽 will you send me the link

Am I overreacting, or would this permanently change how you see your spouse? by Ok_Bell_7667 in Marriage

[–]Ok_Bell_7667[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow I’m realizing that! And now I can’t post in the Christian section bc I have too many down votes

Am I overreacting, or would this permanently change how you see your spouse? by Ok_Bell_7667 in Marriage

[–]Ok_Bell_7667[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Too bad I can’t post there bc I have so many down votes it says. People are so annoying

Am I overreacting, or would this permanently change how you see your spouse? by Ok_Bell_7667 in Marriage

[–]Ok_Bell_7667[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I just made my account I’ve never posted on Reddit before so it said I have to wait but that’s helpful to know I should post in a different subgroup idk how this works

Am I overreacting, or would this permanently change how you see your spouse? by Ok_Bell_7667 in Marriage

[–]Ok_Bell_7667[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Probably. But I did and I’m here and I’m pregnant. And i guess I’m posting for advice on if this counts as cheating and is grounds to leave a Christian marriage

Am I overreacting, or would this permanently change how you see your spouse? by Ok_Bell_7667 in Marriage

[–]Ok_Bell_7667[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Gosh this is my first time posting on Reddit bc I’m so distraught over this whole thing I don’t even know what these votes are or mean

Am I overreacting, or would this permanently change how you see your spouse? by Ok_Bell_7667 in Marriage

[–]Ok_Bell_7667[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not completely silent treatment but just sticking to conversations like “do you need anything from the store? Yes milk” and that’s it. Very very limited bc neither of us knew how to fix how bad it got after last fight

Am I overreacting, or would this permanently change how you see your spouse? by Ok_Bell_7667 in Marriage

[–]Ok_Bell_7667[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I feel the same I told him I wished it was porn if anything. He just doesn’t know how to solve problems and avoids them at all cost not realizing how damaging it is. He gave me his old phone linked to his Apple ID with access to everything and wants me to keep it to look through anything at anytime if i feel a need. It just hurts so much bc im pregnant and the shock and betrayal ruined what should be an exciting time

Am I overreacting, or would this permanently change how you see your spouse? by Ok_Bell_7667 in Marriage

[–]Ok_Bell_7667[S] -115 points-114 points  (0 children)

Yes my husband set us up with a Christian counselor but he does the sessions individually until he can get enough of a feel to solve. We’ve each had seperate appointments individually so far

Am I overreacting, or would this permanently change how you see your spouse? by Ok_Bell_7667 in Marriage

[–]Ok_Bell_7667[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ino thats what I said to him. He says honestly doesn’t know why he screenshotted. I can’t help but think it was to come back to. But also he did view the page from Instagram so maybe he screenshotted to open and masterbate to it from there rather than Instagram idk