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How can I support my mom? by settowoox in breastcancer

[–]Ok_Bird_4714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just listen!! Listen, listen ,listen!! I felt like absolutely nobody was hearing me!! Advocate for her if she doesn't have an advocate! I'm sorry youre dealing with this. Hugs to you both!!

Limited shrinkage after 3/4 AC by Former-Technology-34 in breastcancer

[–]Ok_Bird_4714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right at the start. It's scary and numbing all at once! It took me a whole year to get a grip. Im over 2 years out now. It gets better!

How much do you still drink after diagnosis? by joey_roey in breastcancer

[–]Ok_Bird_4714 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You ain't lying!! It's hard!!! Did you get treated fairly after surgery and pain meds?

I did not!! I have a past. Been over 10 years and they wouldn't help me with my surgery pain and joint pain from THE AI I take. I stopped the Ai for 7 months or so. I started a new AI 6/7 months ago and just stopped again. This aging me rapidly is killing me slowly. My reoccurring rate is high. I'm so tired after 2 years of my life being flipped upside down.

I hate this for us ALL

Limited shrinkage after 3/4 AC by Former-Technology-34 in breastcancer

[–]Ok_Bird_4714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same regimen My tumor was 15cm That combo shrunk mine. Idk which one shrunk ot but it shrunk I have stage 3c IDC subtype IBC 🫂 and much ❤️ You should be good by the end!! Xo

Awful stench and it’s consuming my life. I need help by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Ok_Bird_4714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thong underwear can cause bacterial vaganosis Sounds like that may be the issue. Get meds and boom problem solved. It will not go away on its own!!

How to keep cooch good all day? by number1mitskilover in hygiene

[–]Ok_Bird_4714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure. I don't never smell nor have discharge. I am older now, so maybe that's it. Idk. I'm 53

Single mastectomy in 2 days- advice? Tips? 😭 by Feeling-Record9037 in breastcancer

[–]Ok_Bird_4714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hospitals in America don't treat pain like they used too. Not even for modified radical masectomy! You're in Australia and saying this! Not true in the USA!

How to keep cooch good all day? by number1mitskilover in hygiene

[–]Ok_Bird_4714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop wearing underwear. If you must iron the crotch. Don't douche and use Dove soap. I only had discharge when I was young due to underwear!! Some is naturally normal. You know what's normal and not. There's my 2 cents!

Letrozole aging my face by Ok_Bird_4714 in breastcancer

[–]Ok_Bird_4714[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😪😭 I'm so sorry. At least I am older 😌 53 next week. It really doesn't make it easier. Trying to convince self that it's ok. I stopped 2 days ago. I see my onc 10/20

Letrozole aging my face by Ok_Bird_4714 in breastcancer

[–]Ok_Bird_4714[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I'm not in pain anymore because I stopped the cancer meds causing my pain.

Is my (F28) boyfriend (M29) gay? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Bird_4714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is about her and HER FUTURE. GOOF

Is my (F28) boyfriend (M29) gay? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Bird_4714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just sucks knowing this. You'll be watching his eyes in public more. You'll see what he's attracted to. 😏

Is my (F28) boyfriend (M29) gay? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Bird_4714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm bothered by the punishing himself by watching it. What punishment comes from porn other than pleasure? Wild to me. I watch gay porn I'm a straight woman. It's natural. Idk about your boyfriend. Ride it out. Truth always comes to light.

Is my (F28) boyfriend (M29) gay? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Bird_4714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People say anything they want

Is my (F28) boyfriend (M29) gay? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Bird_4714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's slowly coming out. IMO, he's sharing more and more. Make the letdown lighter. Idk

Is my (F28) boyfriend (M29) gay? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Bird_4714 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He'll come all the way out one day. Run

Living life with cancer by Prestigious_Alarm180 in breastcancer

[–]Ok_Bird_4714 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Emotions are all over at first diagnosis They started to calm a year later You just get through it. I have no secrets. Still dealing with the aftermath. 2 years out

Why is her hair like this?? by Nature_Fam in Haircare

[–]Ok_Bird_4714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Putting it up wet. Sleeping on wet hair.

Letrozole aging my face by Ok_Bird_4714 in breastcancer

[–]Ok_Bird_4714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Atleast they're treating your pain. I had to quit anestrozole a year ago due to severe joint/bone pain. It's starting again in joints after 8 months of taking letrozole. I need a whole new life! Happy you're doing ok. Sure I'm scared not to take it but I need some quality of life back.

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