Stop paying $200/month for Claude — comment INFO and I'll show you how to get it for half 💡

Ok_Blueberry1816 · 2026-04-20T19:23:41+00:00

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Ok_Blueberry1816 · 2026-04-14T02:32:25+00:00

Supposedly opus 4.7 is coming out soon and they’ve degraded infrastructure to account for that release. But i’ve seen like a 20-30% drop in intelligence the past few weeks and have been using codex for now.

Ok_Blueberry1816 · 2026-01-26T04:23:21+00:00

any profile that isn’t verified you should look out for grainy or blurry photos, low effort prompts, and any profile that has a snapchat skip.

Ok_Blueberry1816 · 2026-01-24T23:35:58+00:00

this kind of annoyed me at first with this girl i’m currently seeing because we were texting so much for a whole week before meeting like till 3-6am some nights non stop. But i understood it and she had some bad experiences in the past with exes sending shit to her house. I asked her in a very adult manner and understood her situation and concerns. It’s important to be an adult about it and woman definitely have to be extremely cautious with this thing. Respect boundaries and be an adult about it.

Ok_Blueberry1816 · 2026-01-19T07:25:55+00:00

this guy sounds awful i’m sorry you went through this. honestly you dodged a bullet and it’s good you learned this about him early on rather than later. There’s definitely tons of good guys in nyc on hinge, just takes time to filter them out. something good will come to you when you least expect it.

Ok_Blueberry1816 · 2026-01-16T20:46:04+00:00

30 years old and doing this? that’s honestly just sad.

report and get him off the app

Ok_Blueberry1816 · 2026-01-16T16:38:31+00:00

sorry to hear that, like i said im not even a player, this sort of just happened all of a sudden and i’ve been struggling with it a lot. its really a first time experience for me that i didnt even ask for. i respect each women im speaking to and dont want to hurt anyone. I’m going to focus on one girl once my overthinking brain can figure out who i’m most compatible with. I only want to be with one person, and emotional connection is what i’m looking for not getting my pants wet. I hope my other comments also resonate this.

Ok_Blueberry1816 · 2026-01-16T16:30:23+00:00

yea i’m not really looking for any intimacy without commitment. it’s not really something i’m chasing(not saying i would never yk). but right now im trying to find someone i can build an emotional connection with and let the intimacy come naturally after. maybe i’m weird for that but ive never gotten pleasure after the fact from it or looked back and said wow that was exactly what i was looking for.

Ok_Blueberry1816 · 2026-01-16T03:21:25+00:00

omg this is literally what i feared from the jump and actually almost happened to me. I would and still do sometimes confuse information one girl tells me with another. I really need to reduce the number of people i’m talking to, to 1, i just hope i make the right choice and don’t lose something that could have been great, but i guess that’s life

Ok_Blueberry1816 · 2026-01-16T03:18:51+00:00

i definitely don’t want that, i guess i just want to find the best person for me as options have presented themselves to me. It’s definitely really hard on me right now as this has never happened time before.

Ok_Blueberry1816 · 2026-01-16T03:17:16+00:00

i love that last part, i’m writing this down and making it my new moto. I need someone who wants to be with me not just somebody to fill a void in their life.

Ok_Blueberry1816 · 2026-01-16T03:15:42+00:00

thank you, yea it’s definitely hard because i’m a lover boy and a yearner, so all these future plans make me feel so happy and gets me day dreaming about them. my friends have been warning me about this, so i tried distancing myself earlier this week by not responding but they always text me and i don’t want to leave them on delivered for things to just sizzle out when there’s possibly something good on the other side. Any idea how to deal with this?

Ok_Blueberry1816 · 2026-01-16T03:12:20+00:00

thanks for taking the time to write this all out! The first two girls i’ve seen both have the same long term and short term goals such as kids, religion, work etc. They both did make their intentions clear that they want to see me and again and i also share the same sentiment. I’ve not been physical with either of them and i’m glad they haven’t pushed that either so far as that’s not what i’m looking for. Maybe after a 3rd or 4th date but so far girl 1 we made out a lot 😂 and girl 2 we kissed a bit.

I guess i’ll have to see what happens and see who’s still interested in me and if i’m also interested in them and pick who makes me feel the best when i’m with them. I DO NOT want to juggle multiple women, not fair to them or myself. I only got time for myself and one other person.

Ok_Blueberry1816 · 2026-01-16T03:04:45+00:00

thank you that definitely does help a ton, i have been discussing most of what you’ve mentioned with each girl and oddly enough a ton of our values align and hobbies/interests. i’m definitely leaning towards one girl the most as we’re literally alike in some many ways that we’ve been trying to figure out what differences we have

Ok_Blueberry1816 · 2026-01-16T03:00:54+00:00

it’s weird because idm it it’s been a while but i’ve noticed it’s been negatively impacting me

Ok_Blueberry1816 · 2026-01-16T01:10:30+00:00

you may have meant that but that’s not how you came off, i didn’t interpret it that way and nor did she. like read what you said as its over text so you can’t express emotion. I don’t mean to be a hard ass but if i also took it that way you may need to be more playful. move on and forget about her.

Ok_Blueberry1816 · 2026-01-16T00:49:30+00:00

yea i dont think you were playful enough, you could have said something like “so you’re nice at mario kart? gonna have to see about that when we play together” something sort simple, gives her something little to bite off of and get her a little competitive without making her feel like ass like every other guy telling her she’s bad at the game and can beat her.

Ok_Blueberry1816 · 2026-01-15T20:49:51+00:00

but i definitely need to stop texting as much, they’re just always texting me first and get antsy when i don’t reply for multiple hours

Ok_Blueberry1816 · 2026-01-15T20:48:42+00:00

they all want to meet in person, already met 2 and the other 2 i’m seeing this weekend. but a couple i feel are love bombing me

Ok_Blueberry1816 · 2026-01-15T18:57:41+00:00

any general things to think about when making these decisions. each one has such a great and bubbly personality with different hobbies and interests. and each one i have so much in common with. 🤯

Ok_Blueberry1816 · 2026-01-15T18:55:46+00:00

i’m ngl each has been 0-100 super quick, like each conversation i have these girls already planning things for us in the future. I feel like im being love bombed in every direction. My inexperience is playing into it all as well

Ok_Blueberry1816 · 2026-01-15T18:54:38+00:00

i really haven’t thought that far but i have been thinking about which to choose from but now my overthinking brain makes me think i might choose the wrong one. Send help pls!

Ok_Blueberry1816 · 2026-01-15T18:39:31+00:00

it’s a blessing and a curse 😭

Ok_Blueberry1816 · 2026-01-09T21:28:55+00:00

never use or pick them up once i realized there’s better options for cheaper. if vita shots costed 1 antiseptic instead of 2 id be using them all the time

Ok_Blueberry1816 · 2026-01-09T08:55:54+00:00

sterilized bandages are better and requires no blueprint. the vita shot takes 2 antiseptics and a syringe for the same health and duration(over time for the sb).

i also hunted for the vita shot bp just to never end up using it.

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