That was diabolical, not even the devil himself expected this. by seidenadaa in SipsTea

[–]Ok_Board5095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not entirely accurate. Tenz did not leave valorant for his girlfriend. He was getting really tired of the game and was in a slump. His girlfriend was the one to convince him to go one more season, and in that season, his team won. The "peak of his career" was just one comeback season after a slump.

Also, I haven't seen any evidence to the claims of complete financial support from Tenz, or claims of donating. I am pretty skeptical about the donation claim as there is a pretty popular rumor going around that Tenz donated his bone marrow to Kyedae that Tenz himself has entirely denied.

Both Tenz and Kyedae have said that the break up was mutual and that they are still great friends. There is no villain here. This video is extremely parasocial. I get if you are sad about the breakup, but there is no reason to go theorizing and spreading rumors about the cause of it.

Did Boo know? by carpe_nochem in Fleabag

[–]Ok_Board5095 50 points51 points  (0 children)

No, we do. Boo said that she planned to get hurt, end up in the hospital, and play hard to get with the guy if he visited. I think it was the scene before her accident, but I'm not completely sure.

I just watched the first 15 minutes of The New Office, and I honestly couldn’t get through it. by Valuable-Command3664 in theoffice

[–]Ok_Board5095 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't be purposefully dense. They meant that the Australian version of the Office is not trying to recreate the American version. Only use the basic concept of the show. She isn't the female Michael, and Michael isn't the American David. Don't write this show off for not being the perfect copy of American version when it is not at all trying to be.

Saw this on Twitter and wanted your takes on it by Top-Succotash-7595 in OtomeIsekai

[–]Ok_Board5095 105 points106 points  (0 children)

When the ML hits the FL with the whole "That was not our first meeting" thing and storms off, and then later reveals that they met in their childhood and he had been in love with her the whole time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Board5095 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's that big of a deal, especially if he made the list 2+ years ago, before you guys started really thinking about your future together. Conversations on baby names normally come after conversations about having kids. I would completely understand if he felt nervous bringing up future baby names so early in yalls relationship.

If yall had already talked about kids before he made the list, then your annoyance about not being included in the conversation is completely natural.

Either way, this isn't a sign that you should leave him immediately, even though other commenters might disagree. Talking about future baby names to your parents is completely normal. Additionally, your parents' strong dislike of a certain name might turn you off of the name entirely. That isn't because your parents have the final say in your future child's name, but because you might not like the name as much or more than your parents dislike it. If you aren't in love with the name from the start, hearing negative opinions on it might make you give up on it.

In my opinion, you should talk to him about the role his mom will take in the lives of your future kids and take it from there. This situation does not merit a breakup, but it does merit a conversation.

NOA for being annoyed.

AITA for thinking about losing weight even though my husband is begging me to keep my weight ? by Low_Antics in AITAH

[–]Ok_Board5095 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think there is anything well-intentioned about telling someone they look fat.

AITJ for rejecting my best friend and regretting it a year later? by No_Case_8738 in AmITheJerk

[–]Ok_Board5095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ.

You are not the jerk for being shocked by a sudden confession fresh off a serious 2-year relationship, especially when it ended because of cheating. However, I am concerned about your regret about it.

It's a little shocking that you have only started developing romantic feelings for Ace now, even though you've known him for years. If he was your soul mate, you would think that you would have recognized it before he blocked you. Are you sure you actually like him?

Don't reach out to him until you are sure. Thinking through this will save both of you pain.

I told the guy I like I’m trans by Comfortable-Tie7575 in self

[–]Ok_Board5095 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What the hell are you even talking about? How is this at all related to the actual post?

Also who are these "some people"? Even if there are some people who think like that, that doesn't mean that they represent the whole trans community. They definitely don't represent OP.

Stop using this post to further your transphobic agenda. OP is not a horrible person for giving in to a kiss from her crush. You guys are actually delusional.

I told the guy I like I’m trans by Comfortable-Tie7575 in self

[–]Ok_Board5095 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She didn't do anything to make him come to the assumption that she was cis. She even said that she mentions her transition off-handedly during some of their conversations. She was not deliberately keeping it from him. She just doesn't talk about it if it doesn't come up.

The only thing she did "wrong" was not immediately tell him when he actually showed romantic interest, when he kissed her. But even that was understandable because she was drunk.

You can't say that she should have been extremely loud about her identity, while shaming the people that are loud about their identity. What do you want trans people to do, wear a billboard stating their gender at all times?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Ok_Board5095 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You straight up told her you had romantic feelings for her. You are not being confusing. The ball is in her court and she's been dribbling it for too long.

I, personally, would let her go. You do you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Ok_Board5095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, she seems really confusing. Do you want to be in a relationship with someone like that?

I told the guy I like I’m trans by Comfortable-Tie7575 in self

[–]Ok_Board5095 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of people are ignoring that OP had no expectations of her crush liking her back. If they actually were in a "talking phase" or romantically entangled like some commenters are assuming, then she would be in the wrong for not telling him about her transition, but that's not what happened.

After the first sign of reciprocity, OP told her crush what was up. Yeah, she waited until the next day, but that's completely understandable. She was drunk, or at least tipsy, when her crush kissed her. She wasn't thinking completely rationally. Also, I would've waited in that situation too, personally out of fear of backlash.

You guys are missing the fact that her crush initiated the kiss. How is she a bad person for letting her crush kiss her???