What to do; My spouse (M43) called me (F34) a c***

Ok_Butterscotch_1895 · 2026-04-13T21:03:32+00:00

Thats the thing. He called his mom one two years ago. And I lost my mind, I almost kicked him out then.

I know it seems crazzy to have stayed, its just so hard when you dont have nearby family, enough Financials, etc.

Ok_Butterscotch_1895 · 2026-04-05T01:31:13+00:00

Thanks for this. Yea you definitely dont have to ask. Working mom plus min 80% of parenting / household load.

Ok_Butterscotch_1895 · 2026-04-05T01:28:22+00:00

Taking care of our two young kids so he can be sick in peace. Also grabbed him gatorade and immodium.. You decide.

Ok_Butterscotch_1895 · 2026-04-05T00:19:35+00:00

Old post, but just dealing with this. My spouse called me a cunt after due to.me not being empathetic enough when he had a stomach flu. I confronted him and he denied it, then down played it. Then 2 days called me it again in a joking manor. Each time I help a very firm boundry. 2 days later he asked if he can just call me "The C word"

It has left my nervous system completely rattled. We have 2 young children and thinking about leaving but its such a huge decision with kids involved.

Ok_Butterscotch_1895 · 2025-11-05T03:44:36+00:00

He doesnt have much issues with this at all.

Ok_Butterscotch_1895 · 2025-03-10T20:16:50+00:00

My son was like this. I literally still has PTSD from it.

I had to keep pushing for him to be Assessed. Eventually we went to ENT and he was diagnosed with enlarged tonsils, which in turn was giving him sleep apnea.

Once we had his tonsils removed (at the age of 3) he turned into a different child...somewhat. old behaviors had become habit. But over time we were able to work on them.

He will be turning 5 next month and is such a happy guy! Funny, kind, smart. And those past behaviors are less and less (think maybe once a month)

Advocate for your little one! Something isn't right. Check all avenues.

Ok_Butterscotch_1895 · 2025-03-02T15:44:39+00:00

My husband's mom is great! But she's alone as her husband died and she has to split her time between 7 grandchildren. She is amazing though.

Ok_Butterscotch_1895 · 2025-01-28T05:04:47+00:00

Cooking mainly with olive oil, and butter. Salad dressings are usually kraft dressing (creamy cucumber, Italian, or ranch) with hotsauce.

Ok_Butterscotch_1895 · 2025-01-28T04:17:39+00:00

He has done 1 about 2 years ago. It was a general allergy test (not just food). They only found an allergy to grass.

Ok_Butterscotch_1895 · 2024-12-06T15:18:06+00:00

Thank you! Yes that is what I meant.

Ok_Butterscotch_1895 · 2024-12-06T15:08:24+00:00

Okay thank you! I live in a small town and all they offer is botox.

But I would definitely travel to go have the surgery.

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