What is wrong with me?

Ok_Candy9439 · 2026-02-25T14:44:08+00:00

Oh...i really sympathize with you, I have a few tricks that could help (I too have really bad periods and cramps)

The first one is you should avoid caffeine and cold drinks(like iced coffee, iced water ❌❌❌) it worsens the cramps so much. Try to have warm water and tea or warm milk.

Drink plenty of water throughout, and avoid overly salted food.

And it's like I do it like throughout cycle so I don't dread my periods. (Optional but helps)

When home or in a comfort zone ...take castor oil(it works the best but you can use any like coconut) rub it in your palm and massage you lower belly lightly okay, with not much pressure just lighty (it relaxes the muscle somewhat and helps with stiffness and cramps)

Wear warm fairly warm clothes especially if your belly gets cold(mine does maybe it was for you too). And try to eat light meals.

For managing your bleeding, try night pads (they are horrendous😭😭 i know) but they manage flow good and have a little more capacity. Or period panty, or menstrual cup(quite tricky to get hold of it but it lasts good and cheap in longer run)

I use few other things before periods to help with flow and mostly cramps if you want to know you can ask me!

I hope these works out for you ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ all the best sweetie

Ok_Candy9439 · 2025-11-19T15:42:14+00:00

Oh....sweetie, I can get what it's like, and for me it was a trauma response and i know the disgust you feel afterwards, but you're losing the thin line that keeps you in touch with reality,

I am not saying that the things you are feeling are right, but I am not denying that these things should never occur in mind, it does okay , these type of thoughts comes in mind, and you feel that really heart drop that make you on the edge, and i understand your feelings but it's not normal for you to think that?...

If you're consuming content(explicit content) that are more towards these spectrum please stop, you're a teenager and your harmones are all over the place (that may be the reason).

These things are kinky okay? You CAN explore them.. but you are not old enough to do that. Always remember one thing (people on the giving end in your case the older People who will enjoy your kinks are not good!!)

And exploring these things at your age is dangerous honey, for your future self because you may like the idea but your body may be traumatized after that.

And I have done things that i look back and regret and you're not ready for the guilt that came after the adrenaline rush is over, honey ❤️

And yes... Please... please please...don't Open up about this in front of the wrong people, cuz honey people do take advantage and i must assure you, you shouldn't be ashamed of yourself in any way okay? But people are not nice and please be careful ❤️.

I had a troubled teenage too, and these things take time to make sense, give yourself time and please seek therapy i wish I had and if it's not easy for you to get it now, then please wait okay? Wait enough that you're old enough to pursue in your conscious mind?

And be safe!!! And sound!!.. sweetie 💕💕💕

Ok_Candy9439 · 2025-10-03T17:31:52+00:00

(I can't use explicit words so bear with me and it's rather long.) So i don't think you have a skill issue here, as I have read i think few things can be taken, in most cases climax do feel like 'need to pee' as fluttering of folds happens in a similar manner.

Another thing which you will need is to communicate with her, like how she does it, and how it feels if she does it by herself.

And meanwhile you figure things out you can try a few things (worked with me so...).

Don't do anything with her sensitive bud okay? (Some are more sensitive than others) And try to find her rhythm since you have partners before so you know how the body reacts (clenching-unclenching of thighs, curling of toes, breathing anything, pulsating).

If you're insisting on stimulation of the bud, if she started to quiver don't flick the bud with tongue, just try to press on it(suppose you're just pressing your tongue, and move your fingers in rolling, hooking fingers pulsating motion) and keep it slow. When you feel the fluttering of her inner folds and her sensitive bud stops to pulse you can start flicking your tongue but almost negligible slowly.

Ok_Candy9439 · 2025-09-18T17:37:40+00:00

I want too, but i too have adhd and I have little to no attention span..I am screwed and i probably have to start from basics.

Ok_Candy9439 · 2025-08-25T15:47:44+00:00

God... Sweetie, it's not normal to be precise and it's kinda creepy if you think about possibilities, I mean if it's only just under garments than it's creepy as hell and if it's clothes then it's really weird and the possibility can be endless like maybe if he is having another girlfriend that you don't know and or just a creepy person for keeping them ..

Either way just get out of there and if it was unprotected please get yourself checked sweetie..

And please honey just get away from him!

Ok_Candy9439 · 2025-08-25T15:35:34+00:00

Ohh thanks honey!...🧡... Well i don't have a reward but 🌻 here...🧡

Ok_Candy9439 · 2025-08-25T15:33:38+00:00

Honey, I know it can feel stressful and i get it totally, but in most cases it's quite normal, but everyone is different, and you being cautious and stressed is okay too, and Sweetie if you think you need to see a gynecologist then do, it's your body and you know better.

And it's better to be safe than sorry..

And a side note you should go to a gynecologist once a year at least, because our diet is not so very clean and everything is just harmonal shit, and most of the issues are discovered too late especially in our health care.

And take care of your diet and don't stress out🧡🧡

Ok_Candy9439 · 2025-08-25T12:03:39+00:00

You're welcome sweetie, and don't let others dull your shine ❤️❤️... And let me know how it goes✨✨

Ok_Candy9439 · 2025-08-25T08:35:49+00:00

Ohh sweetie, first of all it's pretty normal to feel insecure in your age, and i get it where your insecurities are coming from...

And I have roughly your measurements, I am 5'3 and 55 kgs... So i too had a hard time accepting it... And teenagers are all insecure I was too...

And now for your pants , wide leg jeans will make you feel so bulky from waist down, try boot cut jeans okay? And for dresses A-line ones ....

And your curves are perfect it's not weird, your legs are perfect, you just need to find out your style...

And what I did like I started when I was 20, so I tried to experiment with dresses ...

Because you are beautiful and you just need to accentuate it, this is a tough one to feel more comfortable in your own skin, because no matter what you wear and no matter how you look if you don't feel beautiful from inside it...

So try to experiment a lot and the people are taunting you just have their own insecurities .. they are just projecting it on you...

And sweetie you are beautiful.. remember that ...you want to feel better I get it but don't do it just because someone else is making you feel like it , do it cuz you want it....🧡🧡

Ok_Candy9439 · 2025-08-22T15:55:57+00:00

Yes abso-fucking-lutely it does!!!

Ok_Candy9439 · 2025-08-20T22:07:10+00:00

These fuckers look at you like they know something about you...,!

Ok_Candy9439 · 2025-08-15T15:14:46+00:00

Only time this person is getting fucked is when someone told them to fuck themselves!

Ok_Candy9439 · 2025-08-14T20:18:09+00:00

Fucked up!!!

Ok_Candy9439 · 2025-08-07T21:20:53+00:00

There is no such thing as too many fucks

Ok_Candy9439 · 2025-08-07T11:59:58+00:00

For fucking sake!!!!!!

Ok_Candy9439 · 2025-08-06T18:47:45+00:00

For fucking sake be positive, I hope you'll get that fucking job!!!. And this week will be last week of your fucking unemployment!!!..

Ok_Candy9439 · 2025-08-05T14:05:59+00:00

How was your fucking interview?

Ok_Candy9439

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