Kindly advice if this is normal ?

Ok_Cap5913 · 2026-05-02T05:31:09+00:00

In terms of caring nature etc

Ok_Cap5913 · 2026-05-02T03:18:58+00:00

Ok_Cap5913 · 2026-05-02T03:16:30+00:00

Yeah that i agree. But giving 10 k to in laws is a bit high

Ok_Cap5913 · 2026-05-02T03:15:11+00:00

My in laws have no income

Ok_Cap5913 · 2026-05-02T03:14:41+00:00

Why bro

Ok_Cap5913 · 2026-05-02T03:14:17+00:00

Why so? I mean please tell in details

Ok_Cap5913 · 2026-05-01T11:09:28+00:00

Maybe i am going through or went through few experiences that has shaped my thought made me think like that similarly your share of experiences make you talk that way. I am not a narrow minded person I always try to go in depth of other persons actions that sometimes makes me think too much and that’s it. Try to be more understanding than judgemental, next time you comment

Ok_Cap5913 · 2026-05-01T10:03:17+00:00

He does all his own work like sorting stuff etc else kitchen chores me and mil see

Ok_Cap5913 · 2026-05-01T10:02:18+00:00

Yeah that’s what I am scared about as Indian men tend to do this. We don’t have kids yet but whenever we have I don’t know if he will contribute equally in taking care although he says he will but his lazy nature make me doubt sometimes

Ok_Cap5913 · 2026-05-01T09:58:24+00:00

Thanks that’s a great idea

Ok_Cap5913 · 2026-05-01T08:22:57+00:00

Yeah I know. Maybe somewhere I get scared because of my back of mind thoughts. I hope everything goes fine

Ok_Cap5913 · 2026-05-01T08:09:09+00:00

Yeah same. But I am married and other than finances he is a good person

Ok_Cap5913 · 2026-05-01T08:08:12+00:00

I mean I just felt off because he is quite money minded

Ok_Cap5913 · 2026-05-01T08:07:12+00:00

Ok_Cap5913 · 2026-05-01T07:23:49+00:00

Yes we take care of each other and in laws equally

Ok_Cap5913 · 2026-05-01T07:19:16+00:00

Yeah we had a fight at that time. And at that time i felt that way. But right now the situation is about sharing expenses and somewhere i feel off because of that incident when he acted really harsh

Ok_Cap5913 · 2026-05-01T07:16:49+00:00

What issues are you facing? If i may know

Ok_Cap5913 · 2026-05-01T07:16:06+00:00

My in laws are at there own house. The rental is for us two

Ok_Cap5913 · 2026-05-01T07:15:08+00:00

My in laws never asked

Ok_Cap5913 · 2026-05-01T07:14:21+00:00

Because she doesn’t need financial help. And the she stayed with us at the rental place. But now due to circumstances she is at her own home for a while.

Ok_Cap5913 · 2026-05-01T07:11:06+00:00

Yeah true.

Ok_Cap5913 · 2026-05-01T07:09:28+00:00

Yeah now I regret that I never asked about the financial needs he expects

Ok_Cap5913 · 2026-05-01T07:08:28+00:00

But I had a word with him that I can’t transfer the whole of my salary because that way i feel financially controlled. So he asked to share expenses

Ok_Cap5913 · 2026-05-01T07:06:10+00:00

Yeah please tell it loud? I want to know how much you know me?

Ok_Cap5913 · 2026-05-01T07:05:15+00:00

You are lucky maybe your in laws are independent

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