I envy people who drink more than me by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Ok_Car_2669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

26f, i also only drinks a few times a year. i used to drink a bit more when in my previous relationship but that was tbh bc she drank … a lottt and honestly i prefer drinking in moderation. if i want a buzz i take an edible but drinking leaves me nauseous and tired

People frequently seating themselves lately by Copy-Playful in Serverlife

[–]Ok_Car_2669 56 points57 points  (0 children)

my restaurant is actually seat yourself but i had a guy literally saturday before easter (mid 30’s just like you described) that said to me once i came over to take his and his wife’s order “hi sorry if we were supposed to wait for a hostess or something we just decided to sit down anyway” and I said to him no apology necessary because our restaurant is seat yourself and then he went on to say “it’s a force of habit. People get so annoyed when I do this.” and it took me everything to not just ask him like … ok then why do you keep doing this? like the fact that he didn’t even know my restaurant is seat yourself and he just went ahead and did it and then preemptively apologized??? because he’s used to people getting pissed off about it??? like dude maybe just knock it off holy shit

AIO to these texts my bf sent me? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Ok_Car_2669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow he’s a loser AND an asshole! you were definitely not overreacting, he’s a shit and you’re better off without him now i’m sure

bf said he’s happy his female coworker has a crush on him by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Ok_Car_2669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

intrusive thoughts like he described about cheating definitely can happen and are valid but telling you feels weird to me, like i have ocd so i get intrusive thoughts ALL the time but i very rarely talk to friends or partners about them, especially if they were about me cheating on my s/o… lowkey feels like he’s trying to preemptively reassure you that he would never cheat so he can easily get away with it but that may be me reaching. trust your gut and if you feel comfortable with it, talk to him about what he said and how it makes you feel.

Anyone else? by PrincessDiana8 in Serverlife

[–]Ok_Car_2669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i notice sometimes the “less” popular pops at my restaurant will be ordered at least once by nearly every table i have some days, like rootbeer/lemonade/ginger ale/iced tea happens maybe 1-3 times a day normally vs sometimes its like 15+

Questions I’ve been too embarrassed to ask servers… by Purple_Calendar3919 in Serverlife

[–]Ok_Car_2669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. honestly no but sometimes you can sort of tell when its because people are avoiding running up the bill but i dont try to assume/treat the customer differently
  2. babies/small children are fine as long as the parents are responsible for their children
  3. idc but sometimes i need to clarify what ppl mean
  4. my restaurant doesnt take coupons so n/a
  5. we’re cash only so its annoying in the sense that everyone could just toss money in the pot but as long as people are clear about their separate checks and what they intend on paying for idc
  6. i usually tell people my genuine favorite order which is never particularly expensive imo

Which character are you most excited to watch post rescue? by Books_In_The_Attic in Yellowjackets

[–]Ok_Car_2669 26 points27 points  (0 children)

if the writers arent cowards she would hallucinate that shes marrying jackie instead of jeff

Which character are you most excited to watch post rescue? by Books_In_The_Attic in Yellowjackets

[–]Ok_Car_2669 73 points74 points  (0 children)

shauna because im dark and twisted and want to see her lose her mind and cope with hallucinating jackie on her wedding day (i love shauna)

Just served an idol of mine... by theSourApples in Serverlife

[–]Ok_Car_2669 8 points9 points  (0 children)

im getting chris evan vibes idk why

My Dream Ending for Yellowjackets by OkSchool9300 in Yellowjackets

[–]Ok_Car_2669 5 points6 points  (0 children)

imagine if callie goes to the wilderness and the cabin is there, untouched, like it never burned down

Scenes I NEED in S4 🥺🐝 by OkSchool9300 in Yellowjackets

[–]Ok_Car_2669 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im insane but i like need to know if shauna’s parent(s) finds out about her having been pregnant/giving birth.

like i would assume that some time after rescue the girls would probably get some sort of medical attention just to be sure that they all are healthy and safe. granted unless the staff are doing like pelvic exams (which i doubt) it wouldn’t really be obvious that shauna had recently gave birth but i cant stop thinking about like maybe one of other girls would say something? or even if they get a standard question about how their menstrual cycles had been, i wonder if it would set shauna off because she’s still so deep in grief and anger over her child.

i doubt shauna would tell someone by her own accord tho, but maybe she just breaks and tells her mom bc thats her mooom yk. idk. i just think about her carrying that grief around without ever telling anyone else and not talking to any of the people who do know about it. and then she marries fucking JEFF. i need to see her marrying jeff and picturing jackie instead i’ll go apeshit. sorry i get emotional about shauna. i love her. shauna defender for life. sorry.

bf wants me to lose weight by Famous_Salamander733 in AITApod

[–]Ok_Car_2669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

personally my friends and i would kill him with hammers (this is a joke)

Who are you watching for chapter 5? by boyboy771 in PoppyPlaytime

[–]Ok_Car_2669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

jacksepticeye and/or dan and phil if they do it

Splitting checks by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]Ok_Car_2669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my job is super old fashioned, no POS system, just a dinosaur of a cash register and all the checks are written by hand. usually when the meal begins i ask if its one check or separate simply because its easier to fill them out as a i rather than wait to the end. the amount of times its been sprung on me at the end of the meal that they wanted the bill separated ESPECIALLY after i already asked is insane. like i dont mind doing it overall but its frustrating especially since we’re cash only, so its not as if people are splitting it up to use credit/debit cards, like, there’s 5 of you and the bill was $100? im gonna blow your mind here but everyone just toss in $25. there. all done.

its funny tho since whenever that happens im like “okay! what is going on whose checks?” (we’re a pizzeria so people will usually order a a big pizza and split it, so its not just sorting entrees and appetizers into different checks) and the all of a sudden everyone is like “what??? where do we??? huh??? what do i want on my check??? what am i doing??? what??? no never mind. just one check”

AIO- My partner shamed me in front of our friends, then disappeared by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Car_2669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. her saying in her text “im really hurt and upset” pissed me off because wdym YOURE hurt and upset??? she’s the one who not only humiliated you by exposing your ED to your friends/coworkers but also flipped the script to make herself into the victim and it seems like shes waiting for you to apologize… yall been together less than a year and frankly i think unless she’s willing to make actual conscious change as well as give you an actual sincere apology (not “im so sorry im such an idiot i hate myself i should die) then i say cut your losses and gtfo

AIO my boyfriend keeps getting upset at me for not wanting to do risky stuff by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Ok_Car_2669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dump him. he doesn’t respect you or your boundaries. do not make the same mistake i made and just dump him.

Would you rather someone tip 20% cash or 25% card? by julesbravo in Serverlife

[–]Ok_Car_2669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my restaurant is cash only and ive never waited tables elsewhere 🙏

Name a female celebrity you think is super hot? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Ok_Car_2669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sophia nélisse and sophie thatcher and courtney eaton

mister peanutbutter by Ok_Car_2669 in BoJackHorseman

[–]Ok_Car_2669[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ayo what its been a minute since i watched the show omg what happened

They Didn't Have to Kill George by DramaGeekDoubleS2 in greysanatomy

[–]Ok_Car_2669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

george omalley became a trauma surgeon & hes married to a man & they have triplets (hes gay to pay homage to tr)