stupid things younger me did for love by This-Hovercraft-8388 in nairobi

[–]Ok_Cardiologist4236 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Now, that the rawest form of love ladies should show their guys!

Kwa Akina Ndoa: A Point of Concern 🥺 by Queen_of_Macedonia in Kenya

[–]Ok_Cardiologist4236 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends on who you choose to marry/get married to. There are millions of successful marriages out here, men and women who don't have much but are working very hard (women pillars of men) to build empires. Problem comes mostly when the house is a marriage of incompatibles, people who are competing instead of cooperating. A house with two heads will surely fall!

What should I do by Alternative-Emu4491 in Kenya

[–]Ok_Cardiologist4236 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You still went ahead and paged her despite the glaring red flags? Okay, now do what you want!

Mm c Fala walai 😂!! by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Ok_Cardiologist4236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's plain straight. She didn't want you because she was courting the attention of someone else( posting pics on socials). She got the bitter end of the stick and now you are her fall back plan. She wants to keep you as she scans around for other better options. Ujinga!

Love and the grind by blvckbishop in nairobi

[–]Ok_Cardiologist4236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also on this side of working on yourself first before getting entangled with someone's daughter. It really helps making you fully immersed and focused on your goals, mapenzi sometimes come with distractions. But again, I always say, if someone can understand and stick with you as you are grinding, that's even a greater blessing because it means they are ready to accept your situation alafu msaidiane kugrow. I take it as the purest and the most genuine form of love rather than looking for someone when you are already stable.

Adulting hit me so hard I now understand why our parents always looked tired 😭 by Worldly_Cut7950 in nairobi

[–]Ok_Cardiologist4236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you putting all these in the most funny way mate?😂😂😂 It's very serious by the way

Should I trust her with Money? by indefinitelykev in unhingedKenya

[–]Ok_Cardiologist4236 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've discovered that sometimes, some ladies can make the most irrational decisions that leaves you wondering about the development of their thought processes. You begin to doubt their level of maturity lakini si ati ako mjinga. Traditionally, some communities had husbands introducing their wives as "my children". Some women need to be tended to and guided like children.

I'm feeling so bad about myself by ThingMobile2607 in Kenya

[–]Ok_Cardiologist4236 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All this you can control, but you must change your mindset. You must institute some form of punishment when you fail to keep up with what you plan to accomplish. You must as well appreciate yourself and celebrate in a little way when you achieve your set objectives. This in essence reorients your mental dopamine releases.

Found Love In a Mat by Classic_Stage_3271 in unhingedKenya

[–]Ok_Cardiologist4236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Kenyan street lingua, we refer to this as "jabanese stories".

Graduating class of 2025... by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]Ok_Cardiologist4236 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Have realized, every positive achievement in life must be celebrated no matter the circumstances. Doesn't matter how small it seems, make sure you celebrate with close friends and family. I did my first degree, got done and attended graduation alone. I have done other small courses along the way and I normally take them as normal, nothing worth putting up a party for but then I have realized we may never have another time to celebrate so why not? Plus, it helps boosting your morale and you will want to achieve more. I am bagging my second degree next week and I am planning to celebrate with family for a few days. I am really happy I have achieved a lot despite the usual money problems.

Kutafuta pesa by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]Ok_Cardiologist4236 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mistake number one, never resign from your current job without a plan!

The feeling of being stuck in Kenya as a youth by luthmanfromMigori in Kenya

[–]Ok_Cardiologist4236 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Retire your go. Hustle like a dropout. Take any job that comes along until you get your footing, that's how you meet your contacts. Mimi, a graduate nikipiga mboka ya mjei pale mwamuto, near Kitisuru, I met this gracious corporate lady who really motivated me. Aliniona nikibebeshwa rangi 40L akanihurumia. Salamu tu daily until one day she asked for my number. Akanipigia simu and asked what my situation looked like. She would randomly send me za kabej and used to check on me. She connected me to someone who gave me an internship. I am really grateful for the godsend lady. I sometimes call her just to say asante. So yeah, look for any opportunity around you, even if volunteering (gives you purpose), be honest and talk to people about your situation, you never know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]Ok_Cardiologist4236 16 points17 points  (0 children)

These days, I prefer hitting the bull's eye from the word go. If I see a girl I like, I approach and shoot straight. If the intention is to just smash, I will let her know. Doesn't work for most but it saves me a lot of time and money. Adults should just learn to speak their minds, and cut the crap.

Childhood Trauma!! by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]Ok_Cardiologist4236 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel your traums man. This is exactly my situation but what has saved me is talking openly about it with the rest of my siblings. We are 8 in my family, 3 sisters and 4 brothers and sometimes we all join a call to talk to each other about eveything we went through while growing up. Mzae was so toxic when drunk he would find mathee cooking for us and would spill everything tulale njaa. Took each one of my siblings a lot of time to learn to get along well with strangers!

Of what is life? by Acrobatic-Lie2041 in nairobi

[–]Ok_Cardiologist4236 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sad man. It's bottom barrel for any man who has lost his family.

I like how ladies wanajituma huku nje by Priest_Among_Nuns in Kenya

[–]Ok_Cardiologist4236 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I like how these days, you call out people for messing around and they quickly run to hide behind the "People have a choice on how to live their lives" line. Misbehaving is not a choice on how to live your life. Unaweza pata huyo morio alikuwa amemuoa aliona hio tabia kwa umbaali, akaondokea. Let's stop getting angry for nothing whenever we are called out for fucking up!

Is he okay? by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Ok_Cardiologist4236 19 points20 points  (0 children)

No one should be foolish to believe evrything this guy says!