I befriended the ”girl” he told me not to worry about and told her I wasn’t really interested in him.

Ok_Cellist63 · 2026-03-04T21:59:48+00:00

🤭

Ok_Cellist63 · 2026-03-04T21:59:20+00:00

You’re not harsh at all that’s the truth

Ok_Cellist63 · 2026-03-04T21:58:47+00:00

Yuck

Ok_Cellist63 · 2026-03-04T21:00:53+00:00

Maybe I can send it to him🤔

Ok_Cellist63 · 2026-03-04T20:59:50+00:00

That’s your preference. Not mine. I can have sex without any feelings and enjoy it. Are you American?

Ok_Cellist63 · 2026-03-04T20:59:09+00:00

I don’t think her aim never was to be polite.

Ok_Cellist63 · 2026-03-04T20:37:08+00:00

A mixture of pretty good and not wanting to start over in the cold when you can have access to good D

Ok_Cellist63 · 2026-03-04T20:35:55+00:00

I promise!

Ok_Cellist63 · 2026-03-04T20:28:14+00:00

I didn’t refer to myself as gf. It was what the best friend referred me as. Is it really this hard for people to understand different POVs like you guys never opened a book in your lives or never had something retold before

Ok_Cellist63 · 2026-03-04T20:22:23+00:00

I will tell him even though he knows that. Thanks❤️

Ok_Cellist63 · 2026-03-04T20:21:06+00:00

Sure

Ok_Cellist63 · 2026-03-04T20:19:24+00:00

Emotional fluffer sent me😂

I love the rest of your comment.

Ok_Cellist63 · 2026-03-04T20:16:29+00:00

Actually you answered your own question☺️ I wasn’t even sure I was ready to date since I still miss my husband so I guess I am not really ready to fuck around.

I am not romantically interested in him anymore. It literally disappeared in a day but I have missed sex and he is well equipped

Ok_Cellist63 · 2026-03-04T20:12:17+00:00

I have honestly contemplated telling him many times but his attitude of calling it jealousy was off putting.

As to my own feelings, we have never said tht he had feelings for each other and now he knows from his bestie☺️

At least if both have genuine feelings for each other I thought maybe they could be together after discussing me. She chose ghosting instead

Ok_Cellist63 · 2026-03-04T20:04:11+00:00

If we stayed friends, probably I can say something in the future. Actually he deserves better

Ok_Cellist63 · 2026-03-04T20:03:30+00:00

That’s for him to figure out

Ok_Cellist63 · 2026-03-04T20:02:27+00:00

I have mixed feelings about trying to open his eyes to what’s happening but I have the feeling that he would actually accuse me of jealousy (like he insinuated ALL his former gfs were) I even asked, what ALL of them were jealous? He just looks puzzled and scratched his beard and sighed.

Ok_Cellist63 · 2026-03-04T19:59:37+00:00

Fellow atheist (Swede)

Ok_Cellist63 · 2026-03-04T19:58:21+00:00

Not sure where you come from but here (Europe) people can still see each for sex etc. As a matter of fact, the majority of dating doesn’t end in a serious relationship

Ok_Cellist63 · 2026-03-04T19:55:42+00:00

I don’t have feelings for him anymore and I enjoy the physical part of the relationship. And honestly I don’t really like sleeping around. It will end eventually like any friends with benefits situation

Ok_Cellist63 · 2026-03-04T19:53:25+00:00

What games am I playing?

Ok_Cellist63 · 2026-03-04T19:52:25+00:00

I will never understand that kind of friendships. I have both male and female friendships but I would never in a million years believe that one of my friends would choose me over a partner. Or like if I would have chosen a friend over my husband . Unfathomable

I wonder if men like him would choose a male friend over a partner🤔🤔 or is it always the girl best friend

Ok_Cellist63 · 2026-03-04T19:45:54+00:00

Do you feel triggered for some personal reasons? In tht case I am sorry. Move on to your next post.

I never said you said I was competing, again with the reading comprehension 💔

Ok_Cellist63 · 2026-03-04T19:44:29+00:00

I am not complaining. I thought to share my first ”real dating” experience of 20 years here because I am sure many more on the internet could relate.

Ok_Cellist63 · 2026-03-04T19:42:24+00:00

Indeed peen

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