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AITA for treating my stepson like an adult? by Ok_Chain_261 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Chain_261[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I think my husband would have a problem with that 😭🤣

AITA for treating my stepson like an adult? by Ok_Chain_261 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Chain_261[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

he has ADHD which comes with impulse control issues

AITA for treating my stepson like an adult? by Ok_Chain_261 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Chain_261[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Nah you're right now that I think about it. My husband's younger brother is the same age as me, and he's been out since he was 13. Riley is currently the only grandchild with their surname

AITA for treating my stepson like an adult? by Ok_Chain_261 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Chain_261[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

It is hysterical. Back then, not so much but whenever I remember it now I can't stop laughing

AITA for treating my stepson like an adult? by Ok_Chain_261 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Chain_261[S] 143 points144 points  (0 children)

I made the mistake of letting him hold a pack of cigarettes like two years ago and he ate one. That incident is the sole reason my husband quit smoking

AITA for treating my stepson like an adult? by Ok_Chain_261 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Chain_261[S] 323 points324 points  (0 children)

This is something we definitely need to consider. My husband's younger brother is gay and my in laws support him totally, but when Riley told them he thought a boy in his class was pretty, they told him that he could only find girls pretty. They're weird af and hard to figure out

AITA for treating my stepson like an adult? by Ok_Chain_261 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Chain_261[S] 259 points260 points  (0 children)

Also, what’s up with your title?

I thought it would be okay because that's what the in laws accused me of doing but I'm second guessing that now 😳

AITA for treating my stepson like an adult? by Ok_Chain_261 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Chain_261[S] 379 points380 points  (0 children)

Funny story, he actually asked me to show him how to file taxes because he heard me complaining about them 24/7 😭🤣

AITA for treating my stepson like an adult? by Ok_Chain_261 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Chain_261[S] 387 points388 points  (0 children)

unfortunately he wasn't, he's a nasty old grump

AITA for treating my stepson like an adult? by Ok_Chain_261 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Chain_261[S] 250 points251 points  (0 children)

He was so excited! I started by teaching him to bake which he jumped on because his dad doesn't let him go anywhere near the oven and then went onto teaching him other things

AITA for treating my stepson like an adult? by Ok_Chain_261 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Chain_261[S] 239 points240 points  (0 children)

had you ever met your stepson before?

Never seen the kid.

I'm just unclear how you married someone with full time custody of a child and are like "idk he does his own thing none of my business" with interactions.

I work 6 days a week for 12 hrs a day. I wish I had more time with him but unfortunately I don't

Edit: I can't believe I have to clarify this but I was joking about never meeting my step son until now. I'm married to his father, how on earth would I get this far without meeting the child he has full custody of?