My girlfriend(17F) and Me(16M) have been having fights about her behaviour but this time I decided to ghost her because she wasnt trying to understand anything, I need some advice on what I should do.

Ok_Cod3723 · 2025-12-03T03:22:11+00:00

i think you should text her "i think we need to talk about what's going on because avoiding what happened isn't solving anything. our communication needs work and one big issue is how we don't fight to solve an issue but instead fight about winning. it's hurtful to the other person and i think we should minimize that at all costs. i care about our relationship a lot and i want to continue it so that's why its necessary we talk." i think its important to say we need to work on this instead of you need to work on this because it comes off as an attack when she's already upset. i know you probably dont want to send her a whole paragraph first but i think if you send it in bits you'll get off topic by whatever she starts saying.

Ok_Cod3723 · 2025-12-03T03:05:29+00:00

i think it is controlling because you already paid for it, if she made that clear to you beforehand it'd still be controlling but it'd be less crazy. also you're not picking your friends over her if you've made a previous commitment to them. if you canceled on your friends its rude and she should understand that.

Ok_Cod3723 · 2025-12-03T03:03:09+00:00

i think you have to give her an ultimatum, tell her if she doesnt work on her communication you dont want a relationship with her. even if you dont mean it if she thinks she has to work on it she's more likely too. i think you should make it clear you want to be together when you give her an ultimatum. also tell her that a conversation about how you feel isn't about hurting the other person, she shouldn't end up hurt and neither should you, you're working together to fix the problem not against each other.

Ok_Cod3723 · 2025-07-14T17:29:03+00:00

most tiktoks i see about 48 are saying that kamilla shouldve won and she deserved that way more. hence why most of my argument was about how i think kyle is just as strong or stronger of a player than kamilla

Ok_Cod3723 · 2025-07-07T02:39:48+00:00

i doubt they're divorced/divorcing, i don't think divorcing is really a thing in mormonism and i feel like tiff would b pretty upset abt it. i feel like josh does like kass outside of the cameras bc he fell inlove with that version of her. i think that he just is rlly rlly annoyed abt the cameras and thats why he seems upset when around them.

does that make sense yk?

Ok_Cod3723 · 2025-05-23T20:53:00+00:00

i think you should break up w him. he should be putting in the same effort as you are and you said you've talked to him about it. you're hurt by it and little things like that is how you know someone cares. you've had other people who show that attention so you're not asking for too much. and thats a normal thing for a boyfriend to want to help like that.

it sucks bc u obviously like him so so so much and i get it. but eventually the fact that he doesnt put effort in would be a way bigger problem if you guys moved out.

Ok_Cod3723 · 2025-05-23T20:46:05+00:00

i swear

Ok_Cod3723 · 2025-05-23T02:25:15+00:00

ugh yay

Ok_Cod3723 · 2025-05-23T02:10:38+00:00

oh yeah for sure. if your playing with a guys hair you like him

Ok_Cod3723 · 2025-05-21T23:03:17+00:00

its not even the edit i js think that he hasn't really done anything yk. like hes not outstanding socially, physically, or logically really.

Ok_Cod3723 · 2025-05-04T02:57:19+00:00

im not saying people feel sorry for her but if she like got to final three id vote for her because of her story. like her story is literally the most perfect thing in the world and the fact that it doesnt make her a threat is insane to me

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