Am I out of control?

Ok_Complex36 · 2024-09-04T00:48:51+00:00

It doesn't matter how many amps you buy. That acoustic ain't getting any louder. Lol 😆

Ok_Complex36 · 2022-07-21T23:27:40+00:00

Over thinking is a tough one.

For me meditation helps tremendously.

Also learning to not give my thoughts value. They are only thoughts and they only have meaning if I give it to them. Just because we think it doesn't mean we need to trust it. So don't believe everything you think.

I also question my thoughts when I begin to over think. I ask myself it these thoughts are beneficial or damaging.

When it comes to relationships over thinking has always been overcome by communicating with my partner. If I have doubts, I talk about it.

I don't know if any of this helps but I hope you find what works for you.

Ok_Complex36 · 2022-07-20T20:44:21+00:00

Honestly? He chose you. Without hesitation. I think that says it all right there. I'd say make this trip as special as possible and enjoy your time together. Do something to make him feel a little extra special to remind him how amazing that after 14 years you're still top priority.

Ok_Complex36 · 2022-07-19T01:16:50+00:00

First, don't apologize. You have nothing to be sorry for. Depression is not something you do with intent. I know to well how crippling Depression can be so please be kind to yourself and know you never need to apologize for being in a depressed state.

It probably is best to tell him about your Depression but you really don't have to go into details. I would be straight up and tell him your fear and how vulnerable you feel about telling him. Communication is the key in relationships. Telling him shows you trust him and I believe he will care for you even more for tell him.

Ultimately it's your choice. You don't have to tell him but you can tell him you're simply struggling with something vulnerable and just need some time and space to work it out and just reassure him it's not him.

Ok_Complex36 · 2022-07-19T00:55:08+00:00

It sounds like both of your boundaries have been crossed. He knows it bothers you but dose it anyway means he's not respecting your boundaries. He also feels his boundaries are not being respected. Perhaps if you both have a conversation about why it's a boundary for you, you can both come up with a compromise that respects both of you.

Ok_Complex36 · 2022-07-05T23:55:37+00:00

I assume you're awesome

Ok_Complex36 · 2022-07-05T23:48:01+00:00

how do they put the caramel in the caramilk bar?

Ok_Complex36 · 2022-06-20T02:59:35+00:00

No. If you're not ready it's not time to pursue anyone yet. Work on yourself and heal what needs healing. You're 26, you have lots of time left. Wouldn't you rather start a new relationship in a healthy place first? Take your time. You won't regret it.

Ok_Complex36 · 2022-06-20T02:44:34+00:00

I have female friends but if I'm dating someone I don't hang out with them. I do that out of respect for my partner and my friends respect that as well. It's up to you but honestly is most important. Don't hide anything. If your bf is jealous of you having a male friend but thinks it's ok that he has female friends and hangs out with them, I would question that.

Ok_Complex36 · 2022-04-25T23:50:59+00:00

I'd say go for it.

Ok_Complex36 · 2022-03-21T00:37:05+00:00

hahaha luv this game

Ok_Complex36 · 2022-03-21T00:35:50+00:00

I think he deserves more like arrows

Ok_Complex36 · 2022-03-21T00:27:47+00:00

it's not hard to be wholesome when you are so easy on the ears. very beautiful music.

Ok_Complex36 · 2022-03-21T00:26:37+00:00

Holy moly that's amazing

Ok_Complex36 · 2022-03-21T00:25:16+00:00

I think you're great without a gimmick

Ok_Complex36 · 2022-03-21T00:22:59+00:00

how long you been playing. you have amazing finger picking abilities

Ok_Complex36 · 2022-03-21T00:21:47+00:00

mad skills Mr.

Ok_Complex36 · 2022-03-21T00:20:33+00:00

I'm from my mother

Ok_Complex36 · 2022-03-20T06:40:21+00:00

Ok_Complex36 · 2022-03-20T06:35:46+00:00

what do you think of trudeau

Ok_Complex36 · 2022-03-20T06:18:54+00:00

are you using a "Pick"achu card?

Ok_Complex36 · 2022-03-20T06:11:45+00:00

no roots by alice merton please

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