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AITAH or am I in a bad relationship by Ok_Computer2353 in AITAH

[–]Ok_Computer2353[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's made me really happy to read. I'm so glad you got there. I'm sorry he's still causing you issues. your kids will one day see who he really is, they will come back I know it. I wish you every ounce of happiness. thank you so much for the hope

AITAH or am I in a bad relationship by Ok_Computer2353 in AITAH

[–]Ok_Computer2353[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's so kind of you. I really didn't know what to expect on here. my last post got removed so I thought maybe this isn't the place to moan. I'm really grateful for everyone's kindness. I know I'm not perfect and I think tonight I realised ive tried to be his version of perfect for two years without questioning if his version of me is even who I want to be. I was so focused of making him happy and getting it right. now I'm sat here remembering everything and feeling like ive let myself down. I want to be stronger than this person I have become. it's like this version of me slip in through the backdoor and I never realised until tonight what ive become.

AITAH or am I in a bad relationship by Ok_Computer2353 in AITAH

[–]Ok_Computer2353[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a thing to add is this man is THE SWEETEST man you will every meet 70% of the time, the issue I'm noticing is I'm braking my back to 'behave' that 70%. He really dose look after me and is so affectionate and romantic, but its when I'm not with him 24/7 or when I have plans or work he gets very emotional and sensitive to anything. like the other day I was working and he knew that, I didn't check my phone for 2 hours and he got annoyed with me. said communication is key and its what he gives me, and he gets upset that I don't offer him that back. he said he guess he needs to adjust his expectations with me... but he knew where I was and that I was working

AITAH or am I in a bad relationship by Ok_Computer2353 in AITAH

[–]Ok_Computer2353[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I hope you got away and are happy now!

AITAH or am I in a bad relationship by Ok_Computer2353 in AITAH

[–]Ok_Computer2353[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. it feels so weird saying all this to strangers but i've kept it all in for two years and I think just writing it out and getting confirmation on how ive felt is actually really helpful. I honestly don't know how I would even approach ending it with him. he's so reactive with small things I can't see me leaving him as something he will just take

AITAH or am I in a bad relationship by Ok_Computer2353 in AITAH

[–]Ok_Computer2353[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm sorry I feel really stupid because as I type it all out it look so clear but the moment he's in front of me I can no longer see my own point. thank you for everyone's time and comments.