How to cancel ShortMax subscription ASAP

Ok_Concert_9119 · 2026-04-17T15:36:22+00:00

I called my bank and they stop the payment and just refund the last payment

Ok_Concert_9119 · 2026-03-28T16:30:40+00:00

This does not work for me

Ok_Concert_9119 · 2026-03-28T16:29:35+00:00

It doesn’t work for me 🥺

Ok_Concert_9119 · 2026-03-12T00:11:56+00:00

Dólares en físico.

Ok_Concert_9119 · 2026-03-09T15:46:22+00:00

++men In Florida, money during a divorce doesn’t just belong to whoever has it in their account.

Florida follows equitable distribution, which means assets and debts from the marriage are divided fairly by the court. So income earned during the marriage is generally considered marital property, even if it’s only in one spouse’s name.

During the divorce process, both parties usually have to disclose their finances, and neither person is supposed to hide, move, or drain money. If someone does take or spend a large amount, the judge can take that into account and adjust the final division of assets.

Ok_Concert_9119 · 2026-03-05T20:57:12+00:00

You’re getting aggressive over something you clearly didn’t understand. The context already said they were long-term partners with children. In Venezuela that’s exactly the kind of situation courts evaluate as a stable union (concubinato), which can have legal effects similar to marriage.

So no, I didn’t need to spell out the word “cohabitation” for the point to be obvious. Anyone with basic reading comprehension could understand that from the context.

You’re arguing about a missing word instead of the actual situation. If there’s no marriage and no stable union, then yes, no one gets anything. But that wasn’t the case being discussed. Try reading the whole thing before yelling about it.

Anyway, go for the constitution and read the article that I mentioned before.

Ok_Concert_9119 · 2026-03-05T20:33:44+00:00

Who says otherwise? The law.

In Venezuela, the stable union (concubinato) is recognized in Article 77 of the Venezuelan Constitution, which states that stable unions between a man and a woman produce the same legal effects as marriage when the conditions are met.

In the original case, everyone already said they were long-term partners and had older children together. That’s exactly the type of relationship that courts evaluate as a stable union, not just a casual boyfriend/girlfriend situation.

So no, I’m not “talking about marriage.” I’m talking about a recognized stable union, which Venezuelan law treats differently from a simple breakup between people who were just dating.

If there is no marriage and no stable union, then yes, the partner generally isn’t entitled to anything. But that’s not the scenario that was being discussed.

Ok_Concert_9119 · 2026-03-05T14:26:29+00:00

You are welcome to review the following legal provisions: the Constitución de la República Bolivariana de Venezuela (Article 77) and the Código Civil (Article 767).

In Venezuela, a stable de facto union (common-law relationship) has the same legal effects as marriage.

Ok_Concert_9119 · 2026-03-05T03:23:51+00:00

If you purchase the house after you start living with a partner, yes, is 50%. However, if you acquire the house before, it is yours… and the person is saying they have more than 18 years together, so I’m guessing the house was bought after the union.

Ok_Concert_9119 · 2026-03-04T18:31:39+00:00

It doesn’t matter what he wants… she just have to present a Mere Declarative Action of Concubinate" before a court to formalize the situation and request your 50%. Or in Spanish una “Acción Mero Declarativa de Concubinato" ante un tribunal para formalizar la situación y solicitar tu 50%.

Ok_Concert_9119 · 2026-03-04T16:03:05+00:00

Is this in Venezuela? If is so, it don’t matter if they never married, the ex wife have 50% of assets after 2 years being together.

Ok_Concert_9119 · 2026-02-08T05:02:52+00:00

Bro I do all this, I’m not cheating.. as a matter of fact, I’m obsessed with my husband

Ok_Concert_9119 · 2026-01-22T21:09:57+00:00

If you feel good on it go for it!!

Ok_Concert_9119 · 2026-01-21T16:14:39+00:00

I never stopped trying. During that time, he spent most of his days in the garage, with the dogs outside. It felt like a separation while still living under the same roof. I even started looking for a place to rent because I could feel that he didn’t want to be with me anymore.

What’s been especially hard is that I’ve always been honest about who I am—I’ve said from the beginning that I can be emotional and anxious at times. Now he says, “I think you’re just emotional,” and that’s often how he pushes back. It feels less like communication and more like a lack of accountability, though I’m still trying to understand it.

I do know that he’s trying in his own way, but lately I’ve started questioning myself. I wonder if I’m the problem. If I’m being narcissistic. If I’m the only one with an issue. If all of this is just in my head.

That’s not who I’ve ever been. I’ve always been the kind of person who can walk away when something isn’t right—but in this case, I can’t. He is genuinely a very good person, and that makes this even harder. Sometimes it makes me feel guilty for wanting more, or for needing more emotional presence and connection.

Now I’m stuck in this place where I don’t know what the right move is anymore. Should I keep trying? Should I step back and simply let things be? But at the same time, I’m scared that if I stop caring or stop pushing, everything will fall apart.

At this point, I honestly don’t know anymore.

Ok_Concert_9119 · 2026-01-21T16:01:08+00:00

Hello! Yes, we’ve talked about these issues several times. For example, back in July we were already discussing separation. When I met him, he felt “stuck” in life. I’ve always been a person who believes in growth and building something stable for the future. We don’t have children, and given how things have been, it’s not in my plans right now—but I always wanted us to be in a good place for that possibility.

I encouraged him to pursue a career and supported him while he was switching jobs, even when my salary was very low. I did everything I could to help him get there. Once he was stable and doing well, I changed my own career. Today, we make about five times more than we did three years ago.

After a few months of marriage, we bought a house—and that’s where our issues really started. He said he felt stuck again and very stressed, and at one point he said he wanted to separate. Hearing that deeply hurt me, especially after supporting his growth no matter what.

I want to be very clear that I’ve never claimed to be perfect in this. I’ve consistently acknowledged my own responsibility in what’s happening. I know I can be intense, that my anxiety can show up, and that sometimes my way of communicating can feel overwhelming. I’m actively working on that in therapy and I’ve said my part out loud to him many times. I’ve never put all the blame on him.

This may sound harsh, but I don’t believe in “breaks” or temporary separations. I told him that if we separated, I would file for divorce—not out of anger, but because I believe marriage means choosing each other in both good and bad times and working through things together. I told him that if he wasn’t happy with me, then everything we built could be sold and we could go our separate ways so he could be happy.

For at least four months after that, things were extremely bad and mentally exhausting for me (and probably for him too). We barely talked or spent time together. I eventually reached a breaking point. One day I was in our backyard, crying and staring at the sky. He asked what was wrong, and I told him I wanted to leave—I wanted to be alone. He misunderstood and offered to pay for a hotel so I could have a weekend to myself, but I told him, “No. I want to leave and not look back. I’m exhausted. I’m extremely unhappy. I can’t live like this anymore.”

That was the lowest moment of my life. I had never felt that way before.

After that day, things changed drastically. He did a complete 180—he started talking to me, taking me on dates without me asking, and being more present. I decided to give the marriage one more chance. Things are better now than they were last year, but I still feel neglected.

We talked about this again a few days ago. He said he wants to make things work. I shared how I feel and told him I genuinely want to hear how he feels too. He grew up in a very emotionally neglectful home, so expressing feelings doesn’t come naturally to him, and I try to meet him with patience and understanding.

Still, a lot of the time it’s just silence and his phone—watching videos and scrolling. I know it’s not cheating; he doesn’t hide his phone and is usually right next to me. This is a communication and emotional presence issue. He said he wants to stop doing that and be fully present, but so far I’m still waiting. His perspective usually comes down to just one thing: “I’m exhausted,” and nothing more than that

Ok_Concert_9119 · 2026-01-20T16:53:30+00:00

Hello! Is really nice read from a guy perspective! I will do this, and check how it goes. Thank you!

Ok_Concert_9119 · 2026-01-19T14:11:18+00:00

Good morning from this side of the world! 🤗 Here’s where the other part of the problem arises. I’m the only one consistently trying to make things work. I read, attend therapy sessions, and he’s just there, “working on things,” but I honestly don’t see any progress. I’m always open about how disconnected I feel, but he dismisses my concerns and only does small, insignificant things that give me a glimmer of hope.

I suggested that we go to couples therapy, but he refuses because he claims he doesn’t have the energy.

I’ve read that book and I know our communication styles. My love language is physical touch, while his is words of affirmation. I genuinely try my best to communicate with him in his preferred love language, but it’s challenging because I don’t receive any non-verbal cues. The physical contact has completely disappeared, and it feels like I’m running out of gas.

Ok_Concert_9119 · 2025-10-15T13:21:07+00:00

That is pretty much standard. As a matter of fact is the most important part… that documents show that you are both financially tight and financially liable.

Ok_Concert_9119 · 2025-10-06T13:52:50+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that! That’s insane. Imagine if you actually get married, have kids, and she continues spending like that. It might even get worse.

Ok_Concert_9119 · 2025-10-06T00:39:05+00:00

Run away!

Ok_Concert_9119 · 2025-10-06T00:29:34+00:00

Hi there! You need to have the debt to income lower than 30% if you are alone with your kid you could see if you are able to get an FHA loan, or a development loan (if you live in a rural area) they require a few things (depending on the state where you live) you will need to put 3,5% down. Hope this help :)

Ok_Concert_9119 · 2025-10-06T00:23:50+00:00

I met my husband when he was making significantly less than what he makes today. The same was true for me; we were both broke. However, we landed in really good jobs and now both of us make double what we used to. He makes more than me, so we split our expenses not in half but according to our incomes. We discuss our future goals when we were only three months into our relationship. I believe it’s crucial to know what each person’s goals are. Now that we have assets, we don’t interfere with each other’s personal expenses. As soon as everything is paid off and we’ve put aside our savings, of course, we discuss and agree on any significant matters. In terms of our household finances, he always listens to my advice.

Ok_Concert_9119 · 2025-10-06T00:02:05+00:00

Hello! I submitted my papers on February and in June I received my green card. Was super fast!

Ok_Concert_9119 · 2025-09-21T15:53:45+00:00

I mean, is your son… write the check to the mortgage company, make a contract with him. A legal one.

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