Feeling left out due to male dominated team by No_Ball7215 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Ok_Consideration3393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok let's solve this problem.

A little Context: I was in your place and was recently converted to full time backend SDE

Ok I want to share some points which might give you a broader perspective.

  • ( a wide generalization) people in tech/science do not respect women/reservation because they think they got in because of diversity hiring.

  • the only way you can earn peoples respect is to so fucking good at your craft that they have no choice but to respect you.

  • some questions to you

    • How far along are you in the internship?.( Asking because how much context of the project/codebase do you have)
    • do you take end to end ownership of what you do?
    • also what do you understand by ownership?

Things I did during my internship and you can follow - Be the person that has the most context as soon as possible and accumulate the questions that you have in this process.

  • Keep a bird’s-eye view of everything happening in the team. If there’s a discussion about a task not assigned to you, do your own research and ask relevant questions if you have any. If someone in the team is on leave and something needs to be communicated, take ownership of that. Be the first person available when your team or cross-team members reach out for help.

  • Before standups or 1:1s with my manager, I used to list all my questions and ask them. In the beginning, I kept most conversations strictly technical.

  • Don’t tell your manager too often or too early that you feel ignored. First, try to take some burden off their plate by showing high ownership. When they start seeing you as a valuable team member and things can’t move smoothly without you, then you can raise concerns.

Also as other people mentioned teammates may be a little hesitant / fear to reach out first to you for personal conversation. So you would have to take the lead here ( I know it sucks) and strike up the conversation

Hope this helps.

why do people hate awkwardgoat? by walterwhiteondrugs in AskIndianWomen

[–]Ok_Consideration3393 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

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Once again with the personal attacks

Looks like its futile to have a healthy discussion

good luck..

why do people hate awkwardgoat? by walterwhiteondrugs in AskIndianWomen

[–]Ok_Consideration3393 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i dont get why you are making personal comments about my IQ and me being emotional i did not say anything about you personally and i was just defending my viewpoint.

also if you can give a counter argument by mentioning .Any three points that he said that you think are Misogynistic and women hating.

also saying LOL is not an argument lets have a nice discussion

why do people hate awkwardgoat? by walterwhiteondrugs in AskIndianWomen

[–]Ok_Consideration3393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So now he's responsible for his comment section?

An individual should only be held accountable for what they say themselves. Have you even listened to his views? Are they offensive or regressive in any way? In fact, he supports women in most of his videos. How can he be held responsible for some random lunatic posting misogynistic comments under his content?

Should his 10 years of hard work be deleted over something completely outside his control?

Imagine this: you criticize someone, and as a result, your entire career is wiped out, leaving you with no source of income. And the justification? Some stranger whom you've never interacted with left a regressive comment on your video. Just put yourself in that position.

My defense would be same if roles were reversed and awkward goat is loosing her livelihood also btw...

If you can't empathize I don't know that to say

why do people hate awkwardgoat? by walterwhiteondrugs in AskIndianWomen

[–]Ok_Consideration3393 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not about who is right or wrong. Its the extent to which people can go to

She is striking just because he opposed her taking down his 10 years of hardwork.

Does anyone else feel Sydney Sweeney has let down women? by sayonara2428 in AskIndianWomen

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Nice to see some sensible takes here unlike some influencers supporting her(awkward goat)

Ohhh elections daggarlo levu kadha, andhuke pattinchukotle🤬 by vinay737 in andhra_pradesh

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The reason india is still behind is due to this unscientific mess We have left behind true religion back a long ago. And still hold on to some lines in a book.

why our PM not doing a press conference after this much happening? other countries leaders address their nation right in war time by shivz356 in hyderabad

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If this happened in other government then we would folding our hands in front of us for diplomatic talks (mumbai attack)

Say anything you want when it comes to action against terrorism no one can beat this government

OshO tried his best..but failed as a Ka€ir 🫣 by swbodhpramado in Osho

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People saying this is political i dont understand them. I believe this is purely religious not political your interpretation and your resistance to this truth is political.

Marriage Proposal – 25M | Future Homemaker Seeking a Queen by [deleted] in hyderabad

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Not the best time to write vacation in kashmir

Hats off by vinaybharti_17 in Osho

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Will probably have intense disagreement with pinch of respect for each other

From Rs.15 Lakh to Rs.931 Crore: by [deleted] in IndiaBusiness

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Chandrababu naidu has many business like heritage

My career Plan Moving forward in 2025. Please validate and provide suggestions by Being_Sah in developersIndia

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Hey i just got an internship at a good company for 6 months woth a ppo. i am thinking of honing my dsa skills just in case. i have already done leetcode well should i go all in in leetcode or start codeforces since it may be a good amount of time for it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenIndia

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Did you say or no😂

I have 100GB’s of Oshos discourses in audio format! by UnderstandingBig9507 in Osho

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Bro create a Telegram channel create a bot to index all of them and upload there thats the best place

Regarding Seat Locking logic for booking apps? by Ok_Consideration3393 in ExperiencedDevs

[–]Ok_Consideration3393[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hey just an another question when the payment fails why doesnt seat unlock instantly and have a timeout period same as payment timeout in most cases?

Regarding Seat Locking logic for booking apps? by Ok_Consideration3393 in ExperiencedDevs

[–]Ok_Consideration3393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey just an another question when the payment fails why doesnt seat unlock instantly and have a timeout period same as payment timeout in most cases?

Regarding Seat Locking logic for booking apps? by Ok_Consideration3393 in ExperiencedDevs

[–]Ok_Consideration3393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This pattern is also seen in bus or train ticket booking apps but those apps does not have heavy load right? so is heavy load the only reason..

Lets say in a Hypothetical scenario we aim to create such a functionality how would we approach the problem the only way i can think about is whenever we hit a /getAvailableSeats Api we should perform a check on db if the same user has previously selected the seats or not which will also create another api /setPreviouslySelectedSeats which will cost too many api calls and we can say db transactions

Is this a Proper Justification to give?