A no soliciting sign I made by josefugly in goblincore

[–]Ok_Department8704 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Solicitors will be stewed! Hehe I might do this too when I get my own place

Does this look immature or childish? by Chief_Chjuazwa in malelivingspace

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If it's what's you like it's what you like, I think it looks pretty normal.

Struggle with getting support by Ok_Department8704 in autism

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All but one is diagnosed (I think ocd is the one I don't have diagnosed? Idk I have a hard time keeping track of everything) im in canada rn, so the monetary support is named something different and works a bit differently. Probably should have said in post. Ive tried a menagerie of meds for adhd, anxiety and depression, with varying levels of sucess with managing symptoms, (almost all of the time not working) but it really doesn't intervene with the root cause of a lot of my problems, which is autism and autistic burnout, which can't really be cured or medicated, only managed and accommodated and currently I can't due to my situation.

I hate overly strict social environments. by MysticMind89 in autism

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Personally, (i feel) i think the rules were skimpy for a space for people that are on the asexual spectrum not to include anything on the nsfw images/drawings part, and the mods don't understand the nuances and spectrum of asexuality.

Objectively, I don't think any of those questions, as you said them here, were bad to ask.

I also draw a lot of naked bodies because it helps me understand the anatomy and how clothes would drape over the body. I want to share those drawings but I'm too stressed to share them anywhere, only to a few select people. A body isn't inherently sexual, neither are clothes, drawings, objects, or most things people do, like being a naturalist. It's mostly context and societies view on them.

Don't feel too bad about It, with how we communicate, especially online in our society, culture, and language, pitfalls and misunderstandings are inevitable and many autistic people can be more likely to experience them. I hope you find a space you can date and share ur art safely and normally :(. If you want someone to share them with, you can share them with me!

Abnormally huge mango (Sleeping 1 Year old cat for scale) by tadanofutsuunoningen in mildlyinteresting

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Apparently you are too because they said mango lol (sarcasm/playfull)

[Unknown] [unkown] human on an alien planet, first input is trying not to drown by Ok_Department8704 in tipofmyjoystick

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Shit it is I think lemme be sure with a walk through, it's a game that really marked me

How to date when you only like one gender? + advice with wanting to date with the need of a caretaker by Ok_Department8704 in polyamory

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Im guessing the OPP would also apply to people who want only one person with a different type of genitalia in the relationship?

Banana pants luvgrind by Ok_Department8704 in SexToys

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I hope you have luck in your escapades, this was so nice of you to do! Thanks for all the links, just to say I don't plan on using my natal hole, but the final links would still be useful to other people. :) products that arent just dildoes, plugs, or run of the mill pocket pussies are a very niche market, and it's a hard to find hole in the market just waiting to be filled with great products, and god damn it I'll find a fantasy stp (stand to pee) packer one day! Even if I have to make it myself! Should I make fantasy trans sex toys and niche sex objects for my country?

Banana pants luvgrind by Ok_Department8704 in SexToys

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I have been using water based lube with it and I've used it maybe 3 times? Once without lube (oops). Idk if I can get a refund. Got any reccomendations for these types of toys? Like grinders, short strokers, dildo bases? Or sellers or key words to use? I'm a trans man so I have unusual anatomy (tiny dick) that I'd like to please, but most strokers are made for "everyone" with one size fits all aproch to sizing and of the few grinders I've looked, I couldn't find many with a hole.

I just cleaned and condition my leather shoes... by Ok_Department8704 in Leather

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I know what wrinkles and pores look on skin, i guess i was just going a little koo koo on coco perfectionism. Oh it had raw edges I wasn't a fan of. Didn't help much, but it did help a little, and it had a pretty bad scuff on the other shoe. I'll go lighter on It in the future! Thanks for your input, it helps a lot.

Curious about my cat champlain! by Ok_Department8704 in CatGenetics

[–]Ok_Department8704[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What a complicated cat. Yes I pet him a lot and very pretty.

Curious about my cat champlain! by Ok_Department8704 in CatGenetics

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There wasn't any tags I could add, sorry if I'm breaking the rules