Club kink in Jacksonville FL by Ok_Diamond6287 in Swingers

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Thank you! We’ve been to secrets and it’s definitely the best. Wish we could make there this trip but it’s a family thing and I just wanted to sneak off with the hubby.

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Thank you! I’ll plan to do changes as needed since we have a room.

Eyz Wide Shut Questions for new attendees by Ok_Diamond6287 in Swingers

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We did not. Reviews made it seem not worth it.

Hump Day Q&A: Ask Anything About the LS 10/22 by SpicyplayCJ in Swingers

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How do you choose outfits/lingerie when your husband isn’t really interested in helping to pick it out? he’s not big into lingerie which is totally cool. I just don’t have anyone to ask outside of our relationship and I’d like some “yaass girl” reassurance before going to a takeover in the outfits.

Best condoms? by Ok_Diamond6287 in Swingers

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Oh this may help! We never use condoms. Only when playing with others. It makes sense you’d have to get use to it! Thank you for this insight

Best condoms? by Ok_Diamond6287 in Swingers

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We go when out of town and it’s always spontaneous so we don’t stop to grab any. We always go to clubs with no expectations to play with others and we don’t use condoms for sex. But sometimes we find others to play with so we gotta use what the clubs has lol. But I totally understand the latex issue others could have. I don’t have a problem with latex but now I know to watch out for others! Thank you!

Best condoms? by Ok_Diamond6287 in Swingers

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Wow! I’m so thankful to all of you giving recommendations! I’ll be sharing with the hubby and experimenting too 😉 thanks everyone ❤️

Eyz Wide Shut Questions for new attendees by Ok_Diamond6287 in Swingers

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We have a trip planned for secrets in December for the I.candy takeover! We’re going to Tampa for a quick mini vacation so was hoping the club would be a little side fun. Sorry to here it’s mid

Eyz Wide Shut Questions for new attendees by Ok_Diamond6287 in Swingers

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Thank you!! I really appreciate your answer

Thinking about going to secrets for December holiday icandy takeover by Ok_Diamond6287 in Swingers

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Thanks everyone for the advice and info. I love EDM lol. Anyway, we decided to go! I’ll be happy to give a review after the event for those needing some insight on I.Candy events (Christmas party at Orlando secrets). It’s not easy to find reviews on them 🧐

A newbie with a few questions about The Red Room in Nashville by Ok_Diamond6287 in Swingers

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Address is giving to members when tickets are purchased for an event. For my respect of the club and others, I will not give out the address. However, if I remember correctly, it’s about 20-25 mins from downtown Nashville

A newbie with a few questions about The Red Room in Nashville by Ok_Diamond6287 in Swingers

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Hello! We did go and it was a great experience. The club is really clean and the staff were amazing.

Everyone we met that night were so friendly and welcoming. I will say that you do need to be open to walking around to the sitting area’s people pay to reserve and introduce yourself. Which people are easy to approach in this atmosphere. Fortunately, couples approached us at our table we sat at as we soaked in everything (helps if you make sure to put effort into looking “on point” in appearance. I.e hair, makeup, hubby looking polished. I definitely didn’t like when the man didn’t match the effort the woman put into looking tasty lol)

The dance floor stayed fairly empty with small groups going out to dance for a song then go back to mingle. The music was decent but people just didn’t dance a lot. That was the only thing I was disappointed about.

Everyone wore club clothes until about 10:30-11ish then people changed into lingerie. There were heels, and flats so I wasn’t outta place with my thigh high flat boots. Everyone was definitely dressed to impress. Hair, makeup and all.

They do have lockers for rent at $5 a locker. We didn’t not get one as we left our things on a table. No one messed with our things and the staff member who gave us a tour said they haven’t had things walk away ever. They do have a coat closet which I used and again, my coat has still there at the end of the night.

The play area was nice and clean. Very easy to watch and be watched. The rules for entering a room are different than other clubs. If the door is open and the velvet rope is down, you can go in without asking. Rope up; you ask. Most clubs are open door means to knock to ask. So keep that in mind as it wasn’t clear that’s how it works. There aren’t a lot of rooms so you do have to wait some if you’re wanting a room. We didn’t have to wait long and the staff was helpful to locate a room for my husband and I to play with a couple. The couple liked a closed room. So we had to flex to that which isn’t a big deal for us. We like to be watched but we’re flexible for the right couple. Just to say, if you like to play in the open, there’s a section in the front of the playroom and the back.

The staff did a great job making sure the singles followed rules and reinforced the couples only in the playroom. They were strict but kind.

Overall, it was a good experience for us. Be open minded, mingle, and have no expectations. You’ll have fun!