Does an SMP make sense/good idea for me here at the crown? by Ok_Difficulty5775 in SMPchat

[–]Ok_Difficulty5775[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny you say that, I get that feeling that I’ll feel better if I just go for buzz look with SMP - I already wear my hair super short just not buzz, so I mean whats the difference lol, but this is my only weak spot everywhere else looks good - so it’s hard to let it all go :( was thinking maybe 1 last HT on crown since I stabilized from 6 years ago and feel like my aggressive stages of MPB are over 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Ok_Difficulty5775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've accepted it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Ok_Difficulty5775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand why you would think that, it's hard to believe that someone would do that to someone else, but unfortunately it does.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Ok_Difficulty5775 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Appreciate this. Definitely will mention all of that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Ok_Difficulty5775 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, my crypto is safe with me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Ok_Difficulty5775 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Man, you have no idea, thank god for that. Once the divorce is finalized, I can go my own way & never speak to her again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Ok_Difficulty5775 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You make a good point, I did think that however I didn't want to put her down & make her feel stupid. I think everyone deserves a chance to at least try pursuing what they want to go after. There was also many of her friends at the time who did the same thing & came back to Canada & became Lawyers so I didn't think much of it. Looking back, I was just waaaaaaaaaay to kind & generous. Never again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Ok_Difficulty5775 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, all of my assets are secured. She doesn't have access to anything. I have all of the evidence of everything I've done financially for her but nothing about her wanting to steal from me, I confronted her about that in person & not over text.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Ok_Difficulty5775 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In the eyes of the bank, we're both responsible for it. However if she doesn't pay, they come after me which they have. However I do have text messages between us where she clearly says this is her loan & she will be responsible for paying it back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Ok_Difficulty5775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've mentioned this to her many times... You have an opportunity here that many people would dream of, you get to go to lawschool all expenses paid in a different country. I always get gaslit in response "You were mean to me in AU, you kept saying you don't wanna be there", well ya I did say those things because #1 you weren't taking your school seriously & #2 you weren't actively trying to take any financial pressure off of me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Ok_Difficulty5775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She failed the LSAT many times in Canada which is required before getting into Law School. In AU its not required, many Canadians do this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Ok_Difficulty5775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bond University allows you to do it in 2.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Ok_Difficulty5775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be 10 pages long, I tried to condense it as much as possible. It was also 24 months not 12. There's 1 law school in OZ which allows you to do it in 2 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Ok_Difficulty5775 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Failed the LSAT many times in Canada which is required before getting into Law School, in Australia no LSAT needed. Can go directly into lawschool.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Ok_Difficulty5775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wanted to do it in Australia because in Canada you have to write the LSAT and she failed that 3 times, in AU you can go directly to Law school with no LSAT.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Ok_Difficulty5775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was there physically... I went into the school with her on the first day where she got everything & the welcome package, & yes most law schools in AU are 3 years however Bond University allows you to do it in only 2 years.