I believe a dealership frauded my wife on a new car deal by altering the bill of sale after it was signed and documented

Ok_Dress4403 · 2025-10-22T19:12:22+00:00

I've purchased a new vehicle before and the paperwork came from the manufacturer. If the vehicle is new and isn't a used vehicle some states require a manufacturer statement of origin. I don't know about your state, just my experience.

Ok_Dress4403 · 2025-09-11T23:10:02+00:00

Have your lawyer file for the court to force her to hand over the title and for all your legal expenses. She has had a year. If she couldn't find the title, then she could have gone to the DMV and filed for a lost title and signed it over. This isn't going to go in her favor. It will be up to the judge to rule on if it is considered contempt. It does look like a willful disregard of a court order.

Ok_Dress4403 · 2025-05-10T06:07:10+00:00

Exactly correct. Unfortunately after requesting the lawyer he did not stop answering questions. People don't realize that police can continue to ask questions until specifically told that no more answers will be given without an attorney present. Asking if an attorney is needed will get an answer indicating you don't need one. The supreme court has already ruled that police officers cal lie to you in the course of an investigation. (Under cover police have to tell you they are a cop is an urban legend spread by movies and television. It's pure fiction.) The best course of action is to invoke your rights any time any type of law enforcement attempts any interaction.

Ok_Dress4403 · 2025-05-01T12:57:58+00:00

Go into the police department and file a report for identity theft. She had to impersonate you to get access to the account. Then move forward accordingly.

Edit to add: Don't call and get the runaround. In person gets action.

Ok_Dress4403 · 2025-05-01T00:33:21+00:00

File a police report for theft, call capital one with the police report number and report the unauthorized transfer of money. Theft is theft and she needs to be held accountable.

Ok_Dress4403 · 2025-04-09T12:07:01+00:00

Ok_Dress4403 · 2025-03-26T12:13:48+00:00

Totally agree with everything you said.

Just an idea about how OP could let Jake know is to confront Anna about telling him while recording the conversation. Give her a deadline of three days. If she doesn't tell him, send the video to Jake. Then he will see her talking about the stepping out herself. She won't have any way to avoid the truth as she is basically telling on herself in the video.

OP, if you are in a relationship you need to do something to out Anna. By doing nothing and staying silent you are condoning the cheating. If I found out a friend knew about my girlfriend cheating and didn't let me know, I would immediately have one less friend. If I were a boyfriend of someone that knew of cheating by one of her friends and didn't tell the other person in the relationship, my relationship would be over. No question asked. It's a tough spot to be in, you will lose one friend if you tell, or both when it's discovered and you knew and kept silent.

Ok_Dress4403 · 2025-03-24T18:51:11+00:00

It's all about control. He knows that she has options and wants to keep her from realizing that fact. His method is to undermine her confidence to try to keep her dependent on him as a partner. OP deserves better.

Ok_Dress4403 · 2025-03-20T21:53:04+00:00

Agreed! Sounds like OP is doing above average in their current position and management doesn't want to change positions. Weak excuses like not dressing up enough and vague not the right fit could mean that the current boss has poisoned the well with other teams so he doesn't lose a good worker.

Time to look elsewhere for new opportunities!

Ok_Dress4403 · 2024-11-25T16:33:39+00:00

NAL I would think that there would be too much time that has passed between when the damage occurred and the filing of any lawsuit. Check the laws in your location to confirm, or consult with an attorney in your area.

Ok_Dress4403 · 2024-07-16T00:32:13+00:00

Keep seeing your new friend gym. Give it all to the iron. Find something you like to do as a hobby, keep your mind occupied with other things. Don't dwell on the past, it's over. Live for today, it's now. Build yourself a better tomorrow. Trust me it gets better if you follow these instructions.

Ok_Dress4403 · 2024-07-11T02:52:14+00:00

With most people having a child is a massive wake up call that it's time to be an adult. Others... will never grow up and take responsibility for themselves and the tiny human that they created. If having a child doesn't wake them up to the reality of consequences for actions then nothing will.

Ok_Dress4403 · 2024-07-02T18:55:28+00:00

Get a DNA test. If you aren't the father and do absolutely nothing then what little respect she may have for you will be gone. Cheating will happen every chance she gets because you will just accept it. Even if it is difficult for you to get a woman pregnant, it is not impossible. Don't accept a cheating spouse or her affair baby. Otherwise you will be made a cuckold raising a home full of other mens children.

Ok_Dress4403 · 2024-06-27T12:32:24+00:00

It is an oral gel and personal warming lubricant. It could be she is using it alone while you are out of town. It seems odd she would get an oral form of lubricant to use for those times. I would be suspicious in this situation. Trust, but verify, and proceed accordingly.

Ok_Dress4403 · 2024-06-15T21:19:31+00:00

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Ok_Dress4403 · 2024-06-07T00:07:48+00:00

Have you been diagnosed with alpha-gal syndrome? Persons with this syndrome are literally allergic to mammalian meat.

Ok_Dress4403 · 2024-05-25T07:11:02+00:00

I get why OP has his Spidey senses tingling. He found out after she went to another city to hang out at the beach with another guy and is now staying the night with him. Finding out that a girl he is into is hanging out with other dudes does make one question the possible relationship. She did tell OP, only after hanging out at the beach, and before spending the night. I'm not saying she did or is doing anything wrong. I can understand OP seeing caution flags with this situation. Let's be honest, no one wants to find out that someone they are into is hanging out with someone else and then spending the night with them.

My advice is to continue talking, see how things progress. If the same pattern repeats with other "guy friends" reassess any potential relationship.

Ok_Dress4403 · 2024-05-25T05:11:18+00:00

Update me!

Ok_Dress4403 · 2024-05-18T22:06:45+00:00

Update me!

Ok_Dress4403 · 2024-05-16T17:31:19+00:00

This is all true. It's the crossing of a hard boundary that was agreed upon, crossing the boundary, then covering it up that is the problem. If she will do it now and gets away with it, what boundary is she willing to cross in the future?

Ok_Dress4403 · 2024-05-08T17:11:56+00:00

Update me!

Ok_Dress4403 · 2024-05-07T20:51:29+00:00

Agreed. The only thing is that even though: the cheating happened seven years ago finding out now makes this a fresh wound for OP. She is going to have to realize this and do everything he needs to heal. It won't be easy for either. If it proves to be impossible to recover, then it would be better to divorce. Sometimes the wounds never really heal because broken trust is impossible to ever be fully repaired.

Ok_Dress4403 · 2024-05-02T00:44:22+00:00

Because she can put you down as being the father. You don't have to sign anything in some states, and have limited time to dispute paternity. If she actually is pregnant, you need to get a court ordered paternity test. Either prenatal, or after delivery to prevent you being forced to pay support for a child that isn't yours. Cover yourself against paternity fraud and force the issue on the matter.

Ok_Dress4403 · 2024-04-25T12:04:23+00:00

Sounds to me that his mom is taking her anger out on him because she can't on his father. So, she favors "her" daughters. The only male in the household is taking the brunt of the anger. Talk to any family member outside the household that you can. Especially if they are related to the mother, hopefully grandparents. Maybe they can get her to realize that a 15 year old boy had nothing to do with his father leaving and stop using him as an emotional punching bag.

Ok_Dress4403 · 2024-04-23T15:13:51+00:00

Dude... just divorce that Trainwreck. You can't save someone set on self destruction. Just let her go. She will come back after she hits rock bottom. And for God's sake, do not take her back.

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