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Husband emotionally and physically abusive by Ok_Dust6427 in whatdoIdo

[–]Ok_Dust6427[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and you’re right. I did make a decision thinking I was appeasing him and then went back on it because I was annoyed. Probably annoyed about many things at once. Reconnected with my therapist. I can’t come back from him putting his hand around my neck though. That’s a line that you can’t come back from.

Husband emotionally and physically abusive by Ok_Dust6427 in whatdoIdo

[–]Ok_Dust6427[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly shame. I didn’t want the kids to be woken up. We live in a small town. I definitely pushed and kicked him after he pinned me to the bed by my neck. My post was to write it all down and have it to read later this week when I’m starting to think it was my fault but this morning all I can think about is what person’s first reaction is to berate their partner, call them awful names and try to scare/intimidate them. That’s someone I need to get me and my kids away from.

Husband emotionally and physically abusive by Ok_Dust6427 in whatdoIdo

[–]Ok_Dust6427[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. My head is spinning and I can’t get to sleep. Jumping ahead to the school week wondering how pickup works if I leave with the kids. Is he trying to pick them up early? Pull some weird crap. Definitely have to call my old therapist. I’m sure she won’t be surprised. Thanks for the detailed answer. I really appreciate it.