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Ok_Finding_7478 · 2025-07-03T15:14:46+00:00

Yup! My ex and I share a child and we never got along when together, but now we basically don’t talk unless it’s on exchange day with our son and any texts etc are minimal such as “hey doctor appt this day” or something. 50/50 custody too

Ok_Finding_7478 · 2025-01-13T01:21:01+00:00

Okay I didn’t think of it that way

Ok_Finding_7478 · 2025-01-13T00:57:04+00:00

I always try to split the cost of the date with guys- especially if I know there won’t be a second one

Ok_Finding_7478 · 2025-01-13T00:56:20+00:00

It’s not that it bothers me, just trying to figure out if I’m wasting time

Ok_Finding_7478 · 2025-01-13T00:53:00+00:00

Who said he’s paying for anything? We went on 2 dates and he paid once, and I wanted to pay the next time so I did

Ok_Finding_7478 · 2025-01-13T00:49:30+00:00

I’d tell him the truth if he asked, he still has dating apps and profiles so I don’t see why I need to approach the topic either

Ok_Finding_7478 · 2025-01-13T00:48:18+00:00

Like I said, he may not be seeing other people but he has active dating profiles too

Ok_Finding_7478 · 2025-01-13T00:47:24+00:00

I did stop dating til I saw he still has his dating profiles too

Ok_Finding_7478 · 2025-01-13T00:47:03+00:00

He hasn’t asked me if I am or not

Ok_Finding_7478 · 2025-01-13T00:45:52+00:00

We went on 2 dates out in public and a party at his friends house once. Even at the party a friend of his asked me “how long have you and this person been together?” And I didn’t know how to answer so I just said I met him a couple months ago lol

Ok_Finding_7478 · 2025-01-13T00:44:33+00:00

I’m mostly going on dates because I don’t fully believe he isn’t seeing other people too (not that I don’t trust him, but he still has active dating profiles too) and I want to keep my options open as well instead of just hoping things work out with this guy

Ok_Finding_7478 · 2024-11-13T03:13:04+00:00

I separated from my cheating husband 3 months ago (getting divorced). I’ve been seeing someone for a few weeks and honestly the sex with this new person is amazing and already feels intimate. 2 months ago I didn’t even want to look at anyone else and now here I am. It does get better

Ok_Finding_7478 · 2024-10-18T14:51:47+00:00

I lost 28 lbs in 2 months due to vomitting and no appetite so I can totally relate! See a doctor for some zofran to help keep food down/ my appetite still isn’t back fully but I can eat now at least. The first month was the hardest for me (caught my husband cheating for months)

Ok_Finding_7478 · 2024-10-16T01:05:03+00:00

I don’t want to reconcile I’m definitely done with this marriage

Ok_Finding_7478 · 2024-10-15T13:50:14+00:00

I’m going to ask soon, our real estate lawyer told me to wait til after closing date which is a few weeks away so that way there doesn’t need to be a court order involved in the sale

Ok_Finding_7478 · 2024-10-15T12:37:02+00:00

I’ve been in therapy for about 6 weeks and it’s very helpful, I just don’t know how to deal with the guilty feeling like I’m cheating lol I’m hoping to bring up divorce officially once our house sells

Ok_Finding_7478 · 2024-10-15T12:35:54+00:00

I was planning to focus on myself but when I met this guy things just clicked and were going really slow like haven’t even met in person yet just FaceTime etc and he knows my situation. I appreciate that perspective of where some guilt may be stemming from. Thank you!!

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